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Hang in there and stay positive. Hope you beat it and get better!!! | |||
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Admin/Odd Duck |
Same old around here for those interested. We are 9 days away from beginning to address the issues at hand. The holding pattern the last 10 days has been frustrating. I mean, I know have something bad going on and time is marching by while I do nothing. Arg. My brother and sister are coming out, which means an entire house cleaning. I can do the kitchen and floor even with the hernia. I don't have anything philosophical to post because all those things remain the same. One slight problem I am having though is my dreams A few are really creepy and seem similar of nature but the physical locations in the dreams change. In those, I am lost, like I have dementia or something and am debilitated. I really dislike those dreams and have never had such previously. The human mind can be odd oft times. ____________________________________________________ New and improved super concentrated me: Proud rebel, heretic, and Oneness Apostolic Pentecostal. There is iron in my words of death for all to see. So there is iron in my words of life. | |||
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Be polite, be professional, but have a plan to kill everybody you meet. |
A day at a time.. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers Thom "Tulta munille!" NRA Benefactor Life Member NRA Certified Instructor NRA Range Safety Officer SAF Life Member | |||
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Semper Fi - 1775 |
LBJ:. Regarding the dreams, are you on any new meds? There are certain painkillers (and NyQuil) that and know 100% give me very weird dreams. ___________________________ All it takes...is all you got. ____________________________ For those who have fought for it, Freedom has a flavor the protected will never know ΜΟΛΩΝ ΛΑΒΕ | |||
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Partial dichotomy |
I'm sure the waiting is very frustrating and at this point you just want to get on with the proactive steps. I feel for you, Boss! But as said, take it a day at a time and try to really live in the moment. We often forget that. As for house cleaning, I'd say the hell with that. Or maybe just the minimum to make you and your wife feel comfortable. I can't imagine your brother and sister caring that much about it. Thoughts and prayers continue! | |||
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Admin/Odd Duck |
I am on nothing new in the way of meds, so the dreams are related to my recent diagnosis. As far as the house? We have to clean it because my wife would be mortified if my siblings saw the house the way it currently exists. I undstand and will do what I can. ____________________________________________________ New and improved super concentrated me: Proud rebel, heretic, and Oneness Apostolic Pentecostal. There is iron in my words of death for all to see. So there is iron in my words of life. | |||
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Godspeed lbj, continued prayers.. Regards, Will G. | |||
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Recondite Raider |
Continued Prayers your way. And just for humor's sake why don't you ask the doc how much he is going to get from the sale of that kidney of yours to a patient in a third world country __________________________ More blessed than I deserve. http://davesphotography7055.zenfolio.com/f238091154 | |||
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Lighten up and laugh |
I'd imagine anyone going through what you are going through would have something manifest itself in dreams I hope they pass quickly. | |||
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A man's got to know his limitations |
Best wishes and prayers sent. "But, as luck would have it, he stood up. He caught that chunk of lead." Gunnery Sergeant Carlos Hathcock "If there's one thing this last week has taught me, it's better to have a gun and not need it than to need a gun and not have it." Clarence Worley | |||
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Assault Accountant |
You are in my thoughts and prayers, lbj. __________________ Member NRA Member NYSRPA | |||
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Ammoholic |
Continued prayers. NRA Patron Member, Instructor and CRSO NC CCH Instructor GRNC Life Member VCDL Member | |||
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Nature is full of magnificent creatures |
I have to say, having read your posts on this thread, I am amazed at how you are handling this, being concerned about your daughters and your wife. To be worried about their feelings in the midst of all you are dealing with, and to maintain your faith as you have, is truly inspiring. | |||
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ammoholic |
LBJ, There are may good wished here, and some with pull and ability within the medical world. From both ends, I watched my father beat odds while having Pancreatic Cancer, and watched my mother become his watchdog. Your wife sounds very similar, and will learn that she does understand you better than the doctors, and will speak up on your behalf. Ask questions, and if you don't understand, question till you do. Doctors are not always right. Medicine is not an exact science, and you might have many more years than one doctor said. Having said that - if you want to get into other medical programs or hospitals, ask. You gave so much to this forum, and to all of us, it is our absolute desire to give something back. There are protocols and practices in other cities. Do some research and if you want help, ask. I had mentioned earlier, Columbia/NYU in New York, and Sloan Kettering have world leading programs. There are other hospitals and programs, and we can make calls. I watched how Columbia's protocol changed, and gave my own father 7 more years instead of 7 weeks. If you are comfortable with your doctors and hospital, that also works. If you have questions, ask - we all want to give back, and all care. | |||
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sick puppy |
I lost my mom to Multiple Sclerosis a few years ago. seems like ages, and yesterday. But i also remember being a 6 year old boy being told my mom had some disease I couldn't pronounce. We had a card table set up in the family room - my mom loved doing puzzles, and had finished the puzzle a few days before. I had convinced them to keep the table up and had made a fort by draping an oversized blanket over the table and piling some pillows under the table. I didn't remember much more than going to hide in that fort the moment my parents told my sister and me about the disease, but reading some of her journals last summer, my mom wrote that I hid under there for 2 hours with my stuffed bunny before I eventually fell asleep - and it was then that they moved me to my bed. It never happened much til my mom passed, but since then, as I've learned of friends and family getting sick with cancer or all these diseases we have knowledge of nowadays, I always feel the exact same way - a scared little six year old me, hiding in my fort with my stuffed bunny. So as far as not knowing how to feel or act, no one can tell you that. That's the hardest part; I always wanted someone to tell me how I should feel, because I don't think I handle mortality things very well. As I am sure you are, just take it as it comes. feel what you feel when you feel it, because, after all, it's happening to you. anyway; I, like others have said, don't know you personally. but I've definitely come to respect you and your opinions, and to enjoy your contributions to the forum. Know that you're in my prayers as well. Stay strong. and I know God has a plan. ____________________________ While you may be able to get away with bottom shelf whiskey, stay the hell away from bottom shelf tequila. - FishOn | |||
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Prince of Cats |
Continuing prayers for you LBJ. I am also glad you are sharing this with us here, and are secure enough to do so. I hope we can help you deal with what I am sure is extremely stressful. | |||
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The Persian |
Two weeks for surgery? I don't think I ever waited two weeks with my docs. Often it was 1-2 days. I literally was diagnosed on Wednesday and was in chemo on Friday. ------- A turbo: Exhaust gasses go into the turbocharger and spin it, witchcraft happens, and you go faster. Mr. Doom and Gloom "King in the north!" "Slow is smooth... and also slow. | |||
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Eye on the Silver Lining |
I completely understand where your wife is coming from on the house front. Can your girls help? All of these posts are so full of love and encouragement, I'm in awe of the goodness here (Sometimes I forget when a thread takes a nasty turn!). I'd like to just suggest that you start doing research on the cancer drugs they'll be using after the surgery. You want the latest and greatest, and I discovered with a friend who recently went into remission, that sometimes it seemed like a particular drug protocol had to be employed before they could move on to the more efficacious, newer, better treatment. I'm sure there was good reason, but the husband was convinced it was about the $ the drug companies put into R&D. It was hard for me to believe, but I will just suggest you look carefully at the choices your doctor and his team makes and ASK questions. Push. Always bring your wife, or other trusted family member or friend that can listen and make notes for further study. Record the explanations if necessary. Don't be ashamed or embarrassed by requesting a thorough explanation, and having them repeat it so you can understand. This is your life, and your body. Defend it and protect it to the best of your abilities. My very best wishes to you and your family. __________________________ "Trust, but verify." | |||
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Admin/Odd Duck |
This time of the morning next week I should be on the operating table at the hospital. Then a 10 day or so recovery begins. I am told the hernia part will be the painful part during said recovery. After that, we are off to the first oncologist in mid February and we will begin to form the plan for the next stage of treatment. I think I have finally finished notifying friends and family, though perhaps someone here or there has fallen through the cracks. The last couple of notifications this weekend were tedious in the sense it became so repetitive. Arg. ____________________________________________________ New and improved super concentrated me: Proud rebel, heretic, and Oneness Apostolic Pentecostal. There is iron in my words of death for all to see. So there is iron in my words of life. | |||
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Prayers and good thoughts. Kind of strange worrying about the house but that's just me. I'm looking forward to your next road trip. ____________________________________________________ The butcher with the sharpest knife has the warmest heart. | |||
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