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This is the era of blood lust for power. "Acceptance" is not the focus here. Control and Compliance is. You are not allowed to think for yourself or have your own beliefs or opinions on anything anymore. This runs smack into people who think as I do and are unwilling to comply with this agenda. Ultimately, do I give two damns if anyone is homosexual...not a bit. I have two very good friends how are both homosexual. However, my not caring how someone else lives their life does not mean I condone it or am open to be forced to accept it as normal. I think this is where the Methodist church is at (as well as others) which is not a position that's allowed in current times by those chasing power.

A collision of beliefs and push back on those seeking power is coming, and the outcome will not be pretty.


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While I think that every denomination has the right to hold fast to their beliefs I think you could also argue that it is resulting in a decline numbers within their respective churches.
And I'd argue its not churches holding fast to their beliefs that's chasing membership away, it's their turning away from their beliefs such that people view the church as just another immoral and corrupt segment of society. That and society as a whole has moved away from a spiritual desire to believe in something bigger and better than 'self', to a selfish society that believes in its own significance above everything else.

And those comments were typed by a person who's not overtly religious.


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While I think that every denomination has the right to hold fast to their beliefs I think you could also argue that it is resulting in a decline numbers within their respective churches.
And I'd argue its not churches holding fast to their beliefs that's chasing membership away, it's their turning away from their beliefs such that people view the church as just another immoral and corrupt segment of society. That and society as a whole has moved away from a spiritual desire to believe in something bigger and better than 'self', to a selfish society that believes in its own significance above everything else.

And those comments were typed by a person who's not overtly religious.


That is not at all an unfair POV and I would agree there are far too many that have become self entitled and focus on "what's in it for me" in all walks of life, straight included
 
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Probably time to recognize that there are some things for which there simply is no satisfactory compromise.

There is no way to compromise on sending Jews to gas chambers.
There is no way to compromise on allowing the killing of living, born, babies.

And there is no way to compromise on the morality of homosexuality. There may be some "nuance" as to what is actually done, but no compromise on the principle. We are all "sinners" so certainly gay people are "welcome in a church"; but there simply can be no recognition of "Gay Marriage" to a professed Christian, any more than there could be "adulterous marriage". Sinners may sin, but churches should never condone and participate in it.


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Probably time to recognize that there are some things for which there simply is no satisfactory compromise.

There is no way to compromise on sending Jews to gas chambers.
There is no way to compromise on allowing the killing of living, born, babies.

And there is no way to compromise on the morality of homosexuality. There may be some "nuance" as to what is actually done, but no compromise on the principle. We are all "sinners" so certainly gay people are "welcome in a church"; but there simply can be no recognition of "Gay Marriage" to a professed Christian, any more than there could be "adulterous marriage". Sinners may sin, but churches should never condone and participate in it.


I agree 100% on your first point and on the second point, while I cannot wrap my head around the recent changes in abortion policy and might not agree with them I am pro choice and have a daughter who is a volunteer in Planned Parenthood.

On point 3 - I am a "professed Christian" and I am accepting of homosexuals and believe they have the right to marry and be recognized as such...I also think comparing this to abortion and the holocaust is one of the most asinine things I have every read...sorry
 
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I belong to and am an Elder in a Presbyterian church. This same issue came up a few years ago and met with the same results.

My particular branch believes that we are guided by Scripture. And the Bible is very clear on this.

We also believe in "loving the sinner but hating the sin." Gays, addicts, and sinners of all sorts are welcome in our church. After all, Jesus comported with sinners, not the pure.

"On hearing this, Jesus said to them, 'It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.'” (Mark 2:17)

Just not to the pulpit, where they would be standing hypocritical to the Word.
Exactly. I have been a Methodist all my life and witnessed the change to UMC back in the 1960s when the Evangelical United Brethren merged with the Methodist Church. That change did not involve the sexual issues. I also believe in Biblical proscription of the LGBTQ practices, but that we are compelled to "love the sinner and hate the sin". I don't want them in leadership positions in the church. We do have several gay persons in our adult choir and we manage to include them and cherish them, as Christ would want us to do--they are also God's children. That does not mean that we should follow their lead and do what they do, though.

I know that my church leadership has been concerned about how this issue would be decided by this conference--our Senior Pastor is one of the delegates. Before he left he assured the members that the role of our church would not change, no matter what was voted by the council. Our mission statement is with open hearts and minds, we welcome people for Christ, grow people in Christ, and serve people with Christ and that is not going to change.

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While I think that every denomination has the right to hold fast to their beliefs I think you could also argue that it is resulting in a decline numbers within their respective churches.


Better to have the church close up completely than to sacrifice its core ideals in in an attempt to increase numbers. Maintaining and growing a congregation for the sake of having a large congregation isn't what the church should be striving for.


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Another life-long Methodist(Texas Conference) here. It's a mixed bag for us. We are hopeful that this puts us back on the path to representing our beliefs and standing for those beliefs. As the parent of a gay child, we hope this path doesn't prevent us as a church from showing God's love to all.

None of the plans presented at conference were going satisfy everyone completely, but the previous path where the Book of Discipline was disregarded, ignored, and otherwise abused did nothing to bring the desired unity. Where we go from here is still going to be a struggle.......


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Dr. Jerry Kulah has addressed the problems in the American UMC before. In 2016 he wrote the following letter. Seems to me, the American UMC needs some missionaries FROM Africa. In fact, there are more than a few "christians" in American that can use some biblical exhortation from this particular African.

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5th August 2016

Over the past weeks we have been following the events and activities of the five jurisdictions of The United Methodist Church with mixed emotions and serious concerns about the future of our beloved church. We have read of actions taken by some in gross disobedience to the Bible and our Book of Discipline, and of others who have written to express their disagreements. We are deeply concerned. However, we are praying for God’s intervention as we discern God’s plans for the future of our church.

It is shockingly amazing that in the communication of “Love Prevails” to the Council of Bishops there was no mention of a specific reference to any passage of the Holy Scripture, our primary authority for doctrine, faith, and Christian living as the Church of Jesus Christ, to support any of its claims, arguments, and demands and justifications for the actions it has taken in recent times. This attitude and behavior has the propensity to embarrass, ridicule, and blur the message of the liberating Gospel of Jesus Christ, which alone has the power to save and transform society.

In light of the commitment we (African delegates to the 2016 General Conference) made to the request of the Council of Bishops by our support to have them set up a special Commission to inquire into all human sexuality issues contained in our Book of Discipline, many of us are deeply saddened by the actions of some of our brothers and sisters to attempt to derail the unity of global Methodism. Their actions to grossly disrespect our Bishops and disobey our global decision at the recent 2016 General Conference are incompatible with fostering unity within global Methodism.

Furthermore, their actions seem to confirm the fears of our founding father, John Wesley. About five years before his demise, John Wesley had expressed his fears about the future of our church in regards to its continued commitment and submission to the Scripture and discipline that govern us. He said, “I am not afraid that the people called Methodist should ever cease to exist either in Europe or America [in Africa and the rest of the world]. But I am afraid, lest they should only exist as a dead sect, having the form of religion without the power. And this undoubtedly will be the case, unless they hold fast both to the doctrine, spirit and discipline with which they first set out”. When we abandon the clear teaching of Scripture in favor of some philosophies and ideologies of contemporary society, we cease to exist within God’s parameter of grace.

We are left to wonder, why are we not identified as Muslims, Buddhist, Hindus, etc., but Christians? It is because every religious faith has a doctrine and a religious code of conduct that distinguishes it from all other religion. In the case of Christianity, it is the Bible, the Holy Word of God, as the Quran is for the Muslims. One’s religious identity is not found in the most appealing cultural or political system of the day, for that is fleeting. Loyalty, obedience, and submission to the teachings of these “divine writings” of the faith to which one belongs defines, distinguishes, and truly identifies adherents. One cannot claim to truly be a member of any of the world’s religions and live in gross disobedience to its teachings. (John 14:15; Psalm 119:9-11,105; 19:7-11). Let the church be the church; and let not the culture of the day define the global Christian community called United Methodist, but the Bible (Joshua 1:8; 2 Timothy 3:16-17). The Christian Church, bought and birthed with the blood of Jesus Christ (Isaiah 53:1-13; Matthew 27: 32-61; John 10:10-11; Hebrews 10:1-39) is not and cannot be a social club; it cannot be directed by any form of political activism that contradicts the teachings of Scripture. And it is not a social or political system based on humanism or secular ideologies and philosophies (2 John 2;15-16; Colossians 2: 8-15;1 Samuel 8) that seeks endorsement for a kind of “human rights” to the detriment of human existence as God our Creator has designed it. Instead, the Church of Jesus Christ is a global community redeemed by the blood of Jesus Christ, who lives in loving relationship with their Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. They are a people called out from the world and yet sent into the world (John 16:7-11; Acts 1:8; Genesis 6:5-9; Deuteronomy 6:4-9; 28; Judges 2:10-13; 17:6) to share the Gospel in the power of the Holy Spirit in order that persons might come to faith in Christ and become disciples of Jesus Christ for the transformation of the world. We cannot in any way be “bad news” by our decisions, actions, and attitudes, and yet attempt to proclaim the good news.

It is time to return to the faith of our fathers and mothers (the Holy Scriptures) and be the church. In spite all that is going on, there is hope for the continued growth and development of the Church of Jesus Christ because Jesus is still the LORD of His Church. We will remain committed and determined to live in loyalty and obedience to the teachings of the Holy Scriptures, and to our Book of Discipline. We will also remain supportive of the unity of the global United Methodist Community as long as the Bible remains our primary authority for faith and Christian living. We shall remain loving of members of the UM Church who have chosen to tread the cultural path of contemporary society that is inimical to the teaching of Scripture, in the hope that we will reconcile our differences and submit to the Lordship of Christ. They are our brothers and sisters for whom Christ also gave his life. However, we shall not compromise our Christian faith on the altar of what seems to the minds of some to be “socially acceptable and politically correct” cultures and practices of contemporary society.

We are confident that God is in sovereign control of His Church. He promises to continually build it until He returns to receive us unto Himself, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it (Matthew 16:18b). We need to only be still, yet vigorously prayerful and discerning in such a time as this, and we will see the deliverance of the Lord.

We must admit that global United Methodist Church is at the crossroads (Jeremiah 6:16). We have choices to make. On one hand, we can choose to obey God and His word, and thereby repent of the sin of gross disobedience and abandon the quest to be like the rest of the world. On the other hand, we can choose to continue in pursuit of what the cultural practices of the day dictate that denies God’s sovereignty over God’s creation and accepts what feels good, what seems politically acceptable to society, etc. The choice is ours.

But as Joshua, at the close of his ministry in Shechem, said to all of the Israelites, and by implication to all United Methodist at the crossroads today, we wish to challenge all born again believers in Jesus Christ (John 3:3-5), in the words of this great general of God’s people, “Now fear the Lord and serve him with all faithfulness…But if serving the Lord seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve…But as for me and my household (the UM Community in Africa, in particular, and all faithful Christians everywhere who are committed to the Lordship of Jesus Christ and the undiluted Word of God for belief and practice), we will serve the LORD” (Joshua 24:14-15). Together, we shall make it for God’s glory (Joshua 2:17-18; 2 Samuel 10:9-12). God has wonderful plans for the prosperity of His Church on earth (Jeremiah 29:11). Let us be firmed and very courageous in prayer and in discerning God’s will for the future of our church, always abounding in the Word of the Lord; for we know our labor in the Lord is not in vain (Joshua 1:4-6; 1 Corinthians 15:58). May God bless the people called United Methodist.

For His Glory,
Rev. Dr. Jerry P. Kulah

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And I'd argue its not churches holding fast to their beliefs that's chasing membership away, it's their turning away from their beliefs such that people view the church as just another immoral and corrupt segment of society. That and society as a whole has moved away from a spiritual desire to believe in something bigger and better than 'self', to a selfish society that believes in its own significance above everything else.

I think that's right, bigdeal.
There's a difference between being 'welcoming' and surrendering what you stand for.



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On point 3 - I am a "professed Christian" and I am accepting of homosexuals and believe they have the right opportunity to marry and be recognized as such...
Let's be very careful with that word. No one has a constitutional right to marry, regardless of your sexual persuasion.


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This, among other issues is what have caused me to drift away from religion over the years. I grew up in church with parents who believed. I have a brother who is a truly devout person.

The hypocrisy that exists within the religious orders as institutions is appalling. I understand and do not hold it against them for the straying of the individual, that happens. But when a religion conceals, aids and abets child molesters for decades as an institutional practice, it looses credibility.

In this case involving the Methodist Church, had it not been for the votes of the representatives from foreign countries, the motion would have been passed by the U.S. representatives.

Those who are LGBTQ who want acceptance to a religious order while ignoring scripture, I understand. Don't agree with them but understand. Many people want something without compliance to "the rules" and want to be accepted as they are without changing their behavior to meet the scriptures. What I don't buy is those who claim to be devout but don't believe that the "sinners" should be held accountable for their sins, they are the worst of all IMO.

No, when religious institutions chose not to follow the scriptures, that tells me that their religion is false as they do not abide by the rules set down by their God.
 
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@ Goldstar225:

VERY well said. My sentiments exactly.

I've been keeping my nose out of this thread because I couldn't find the words to express my view while remaining calm and civil.

You did it very nicely. Thanks.




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Modern man is trying to substitute "reason" as the basis of morality. Morality should not conflict with reason, but reason cannot be the basis of morality, because man can "rationalize" anything (The Holocaust being the most obvious example).

When applying only shallow "reasoning" to homosexuality, it appears simple: everybody should have equal rights"....case closed.

But this ignores the deeper psychological and spiritual basis for why homosexuality has been considered "undesirable..to be discouraged...'immoral' " by every significant culture and religion in human history. It is not just a "Christian taboo". But that takes pages and pages of psychology and moral philosophy to explore, and I don't think anyone has really articulated it in closed form yet. It just doesn't fit a bumper sticker slogan.

Religious people accept the religious reason for considering it a "sin" and non-religious people are eager to reject any religious "taboos" and have been indoctrinated into accepting an Liberal-Academic narratives of amoral "reason".


I could not disagree more.

Reason is the basis of a moral society. You cannot reason me into gassing Jews (your example).

Religion has been used to rationailze plenty of evil in the past.

There are plenty of people who believe in a creator, & don’t believe being gay (or other factors) makes them immoral. I couldn’t care less what the gays do, as long as they leave me alone. The Methodit’s have a right to run their organization however they want, I could care less. I don’t need a preacher telling me anything.
 
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While I think that every denomination has the right to hold fast to their beliefs I think you could also argue that it is resulting in a decline numbers within their respective churches.


Better to have the church close up completely than to sacrifice its core ideals in in an attempt to increase numbers. Maintaining and growing a congregation for the sake of having a large congregation isn't what the church should be striving for.


Point well taken. I disagree with the "gay" lifestyle. I do not, and will never, deny them their right to attend the church of their choice. Back in the early 1960s, we had a gay friend while in the army. Good soldier, a truly good friend. We never had any indication that he was interested "in that way" with any of us. We didn't find out until a couple years later when he was "outed" and received the dishonorable discharge.

All this to say that what happens in the bedroom should stay in the bedroom!

It is not the "church's" business, either. Church business is to look after people's souls! Should a congregant approach the pastor/priest to discuss his/her issue of homosexuality they should be told that it is against what Jesus preached. I worked in a religious counseling center and where we were part of an evangelical ministry. We got several calls regarding this issue, and our approach was simple. The Bible says it is a sin. There was never any condemnation of the individuals who called in. It is not our place to condemn it, other than to point out that God/Jesus says it is wrong. But that is, and should remain, between God and the individuals.


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More church drama.

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I have many gay and lesbian friends, some of which are extremely spiritual and very much believe in the word of God. While I think that every denomination has the right to hold fast to their beliefs I think you could also argue that it is resulting in a decline numbers within their respective churches.


Tis true. Many people are willing to compromise the true faith for the sake of political correctness. But as the good Dr. Jerry Kulah said in his letter posted above, "The Christian Church, bought and birthed with the blood of Jesus Christ is not and cannot be a social club; it cannot be directed by any form of political activism that contradicts the teachings of Scripture."

Many so called churches today are not any kind of church at all. The [American] United Methodist Church, Presbyterian Church USA, and others have departed from the bible and have made their own rules - ordaining women preachers, claiming sanctity of gay marriage, and affirming homosexuality as non-sinful, among other things. In so doing, they have ceased to be churches, though there may be some Christians yet left in them. These places have become what Paul wrote to Timothy (2 Timothy 4:3) "For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but wanting to have their ears tickled, they will accumulate for themselves teachers in accordance to their own desires."


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Reason is the basis of a moral society. You cannot reason me into gassing Jews (your example).


But I agree with that. Note the nuance: You cant be reasoned into some things...precisely because reason is not the basis of morality. A society should be " based on reason" and morality should not conflict with reason, but there is nothing in "reason" that tells you that "compassion" is a higher value than, say "expediency", for example. In fact "efficiency" may tell you to do the opposite from " compassion" or "honesty". Reason always serves to simply "accomplish the goal" of a value that comes from elsewhere.

"Religion has been used to rationailze plenty of evil in the past."
Bingo! Reason was used to " rationalize" evil. Religious leaders are not immune. I am NOT stating that morality comes from "religion" Religions are human, flawed, organizations. Religions are concerned with the subject, but not the root of the value. The value already exists in our hearts/minds (souls?)

" don’t believe being gay (or other factors) makes them immoral. "
Well, again I just agree. No one is immoral for how they are. We all have urges that may seem to occur "naturally", yet we constrain them, because of "morality".


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Oddly enough, this is the same church I stopped attending, because it supports abortion...


FYI - Pro choice is not pro abortion


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