There exists a rare kind of girl. This kind of girl has a dynamic energy, a magnetism, an awesome power about her. And her power is unfathomable, unknowable, uncontainable, and undeniable. When such a girl walks into a crowded room, every guy and half the women turn their faces to look at her. She can alter the entire mood, or feeling of a place, just by walking inside.

Perhaps it’s easier to describe this type of girl by stating what she is not.

It’s not simply being attractive. She exudes an almost tangible force that demands your attention. There are many millions of cute, even beautiful, women out there. They are a dime a dozen. You can find them at any party or large gathering. This is something more than just mere beauty. It is a physical phenomenon produced by the motion of a form of an almost electric charge, resulting in attractive forces between you.

It’s not simply sexual. Many women can be flirtatious, and display a playful sexual attraction. This kind of sexual attraction is more subtle. A woman can ‘smolder’, like a hot burning ember in the center of a fire. And like that ember, she sets anyone around her on fire.

It’s not simply a personality that is alluring, or pleasing, to the cognitive senses. There is a kind of confidence, knowledge, and wisdom (applied knowledge), that escapes definition.

I’m not doing a very good job of defining this type of girl. Let’s just say such a girl is one in a billion. I myself have only seen or met two and a half (don’t ask) of this type of girl, in my entire life. One of them, in my younger years actually liked me. But I was too young and stupid to pursue her.


Have you ever met a girl with that ‘thing’?

yep - and she married a guy who is a doper, cant hold a job, cheats on her...

yet she's happy

Met a couple gals that didn't sweat much.

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Originally posted by arfmel:
Met a couple gals that didn't sweat much.

Sometimes, that's the best you can hope for.

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It’s not simply being attractive.

I know one.
She's not necessarily even very physically attractive....
Yet, she commands the presence of everyone. She has the respect of everyone in the room, male and female alike.
Everyone competes for her attention; everyone wants to be her friend.

Yep,
Married her, hell of a Viking warrior 22 years later.
Best thing I ever did.

18Z50..married to a 62A

I have a friend with that presence. I took her to lunch one day at a beach front bar and grill in Miami. It was winter time; she was in blue jeans and a red turtleneck.

The restaurant went silent when we walked in, and conversation didn't start again until she was seated.

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Originally posted by nhtagmember:
yep - and she married a guy who is a doper, cant hold a job, cheats on her...

yet she's happy

Same here, except he's a drunk. It boggles the mind how a woman who could have ANY man would choose a loser. Probably hung like a horse.

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Originally posted by 18Z50:
Yep,
Married her, hell of a Viking warrior 22 years later.
Best thing I ever did.

18Z50..married to a 62A

She's looking over your shoulder as you type this, isn't she.

H&K-Guy

Yep. Met her. married her. Divorced her 15 years later. I wish some one else had fell for "that thing.'

I did! A tiny female hurricane. And like a hurricane, she left me devastated!
What a ride!

I've dated a few like that, unfortunately the flame that burns bright, burns fast.

I have had people tell me that I have a bit of that quality, something in my personality. I'm not really sure what they mean, I don't see it.

I married her 38 years ago. 4 kids, 9 grandkids, and she still captivates me every time she walks into the room.

Unabashedly, HG

I met a few. They wanted to get married...I did not.

I or they moved on...

I guess they eventually got married to a guy who wanted a "Trophy Wife" to display in public.

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Originally posted by H&K-Guy:
There exists a rare kind of girl. This kind of girl has a dynamic energy, a magnetism, an awesome power about her. And her power is unfathomable, unknowable, uncontainable, and undeniable. When such a girl walks into a crowded room, every guy and half the women turn their faces to look at her. She can alter the entire mood, or feeling of a place, just by walking inside.

Oh yes. I most certainly have. Dated one for a short while. Then she nearly destroyed me when she abruptly broke it off.

The effect, when she entered a room, was exactly as you describe: The head of every last man in the room would swivel. So would those of many, if not most women, but women did not much like her.

And that would happen in just an average scenario. When she dressed up. wel... She wasn't beautiful, per se. Or necessarily "hawt." Certainly attractive. Certainly shapely. I guess, in retrospect, I'd say a good "7," maybe "8." But when she dressed up the effect on a room was worth the price of admission.

I thought I was in love. That was not love. I don't know what it was, but it was most definitely not love. Nor was it merely lust, though that was certainly a component of it.

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Originally posted by H&K-Guy:
One of them, in my younger years actually liked me. But I was too young and stupid to pursue her.

Maybe. Or maybe you were just lucky.

Mine was one of those life lessons that taught me the difference between love, true, undying love, and other stuff that only seems like love at the time. It was a painful lesson. I would never want to go through anything like that again, but, like other hard lessons in life: I ended-up being appreciative of the experience.

I've known and know a handful. It's a powerfully attractive combination of attributes.

Big fan.

Yuge.

Interesting that so many have met this type that is “one in a billion”. I’m pretty sure they don’t live this far north.

I went to school and hung out with one for a few years. She dated way below herself all the time. Even married a couple of them. I never understood why she always went with the loser types.
She's pushing 50 now and looks about 35.

Yeah.

I learned to just turn my head and keep eating.

The hard way. As mentioned above.

Pheromones. I knew one young woman with that. My wife describes a friend in college chemistry class, if you looked in the lab every single male was clustered around Linda.