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Hildur, take a valium
 
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No thanks, don't need drugs to feel great.
 
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I'm the last cat around here you wanna get smart with.

Now, I'm telling you to cool it, and I don't want to hear any more unfunny comebacks.

Just let it go, before you gain one of those reputations you're accusing others of having.
 
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I was wondering what that Glock “meme” was about. I figured it was too deep for my brain. lol

Contrary to “you’re a liar”, I started this thread because I was surprised that the guy got so mad at me for merely backing out of a very nascent deal. I actually thought I would get some stories from other deals gone sideways interspersed with the occasional you are the asshole here (which I addressed in the very first sentence/paragraph). lol What surprised me here was the lack of actually reading for comprehension and then the wild expansion of why I was the jerk (YOU BROKE YOUR WORD!). Yikes.

If money had passed hands then the clock is ticking. If we haven’t even proffered a price and you cold call reached out to me, I’m on island time if I want to be. Once again, I didn’t post a sales ad, he cold called me. You have every right to want me to be faster but it certainly isn’t your actual right. As for “breaking my word”, saying I will send them and sending them 2 days later is within that definition to my mind. I would be comfortable explaining that to my Lord at the Pearly Gates.

The other reason I started this post and every other post is because threads are what makes a forum vibrant. I go on the other 2 main gun forums I frequent and they are fucking ghost towns of new content. There are a handful of guys who argue the same stuff. It’s boring. I contend if you don’t like my threads, so be it, but fucking start some new ones then. I would love to read the idiotic to the sublime inner workings of the collective. But that only happens with fresh content. Even stupid, silly, or divisive content.

All’s well that ends well I guess. The original guy really wanted a pristine NIB Cougar L. I told him about the previous guy and I was in no mood to play games on a gun I would gladly throw back into the safe where it had sat for over a decade. He said he would pay a premium, I straight up said make your offer, he said a grand. That was enough to get me off the couch. lol He got the gun, he’s happy, I’m happy. Now I have some freebie gun money and am open to suggestions. What does a contrarian gun guy need for a thousand plus or minus a couple hundred?

Oh yeah, “you are all pussies if you don’t agree with me”. (That was a joke from an above poster) I had to look that one up. I was talking to one guy (smudge) and contrary to what was posted I didn’t say everyone was a pussy for not debating me about pistol braces. Smudge said they were all garbage, every one. It was also the first (and last) time I have ever heard a forum member defend how reasonable and easy the NFA is. I disagreed with that, obviously. I pressed him for his real life experience of the SBA3 breaking. He apparently didn’t have one/want to provide one so he made a flippant mean spirited remark where I then told him to FO. The thread is there. Rifle room. Pros and cons of pistol braces. I was talking to one guy, smudge. Not quite what he posted. Look it up if you care.



“#### you. If you don’t want to discuss something by all means don’t discuss something. It gets tiring when you guys start acting like pussies because all of a sudden everybody doesn’t agree with every thing you say.

Feel free to point out where I was demeaning or insulting or anything. I literally asked the whys of your reasoning. The SBA3 is a flimsy piece of shit. That’s it? So it’s broken under use for you? You shoot worse with? If you don’t want to discuss it then don’t discuss it. You don’t get to pull some bullshit “I've hit my limit of time and effort for a "Pedro thread" today”.

I am discussing here and you pull out your “I’m a dick card”. **** off. If you have a Pedro limit put my ass on ignore and move on.”



That is the post in question and to be clear there was one guy I was calling a p****. He was the only guy I was responding to in that entire thread. Facts matter. Context matters. Cherry picking a sentence out of context is bullshit.
 
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Guilty of enjoying this thread.


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I'm a giver Dave. lol
 
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This thread is like seeing an accident on the road where you know there has to be a fatality and as you get closer you drive by saying I'm not gonna look, I'm not gonna look and then sure enough you look at the body laying on the roadway.

Glad you sold the gun and got top $$$.

Every story has a beginning, a middle and an end. I hope this is the damn end of this one. We've all now seen the dead body in the roadway. LoL




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I'm a giver Dave. lol


I see nothing wrong in your actions.
When it got to be a PITA, I would have bowed out.
Perhaps let the guy know you're no longer offering it.
You don't really owe him a reason, you never had a proper 'for sale' ad.

This sort of reminds me when I had a meet set up to sell my Glock 19X.
We had a set price and a meeting place.
I was on the way and he texted he was $50 short and would be late if he had to get more cash.
I told him he had all week to get the money and to fuck off.
I turned around and went home.
I don't need the BS.

I've enjoyed the thread, good luck to you..
 
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I hear you. I didn't see this thread going the way it did. I thought it would just be a simple swapping of tales, maybe some differing opinions, just a normal back and forth. It certainly did not turn out that way. My wife told me to not respond when guys responded to things I never said. Of course she is right but I have trouble doing that. In my defense I never argued with anyone who actually read what I wrote and thought I was at fault. I only argued with people who made shit up that didn't happen, or called me a liar or for some reason decided my olive branch wasn't THE olive branch they wanted. That one was a head scratcher. Accept it, don't accept it, this 'ain't the Jerry Springer show, we aren't having tearful moments here.

I would love to say this experience, since it turned out so well in the end, would make me sell more guns I don't need but that isn't really the case. Shipmygun.com on paper seems like a perfect solution, if not lgs friendly, but it turned out to not be the case. That sucks (plus Bud's ugh).
 
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Oh that would have annoyed me. In reality I would only do a FTF with someone from this forum because that seems safer. I have to admit a FTF with a stranger, a gun, and money would have me bringing obvious backup and a really safe location.

Not having all the money is a bush league tactic. People can suck.
 
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I hope this is the damn end of this one.


You're harshing my buzz, man.



Don't be a wet blanket.


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There’s my man! I knew I could count on you. lol
 
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Oh yeah, “you are all pussies if you don’t agree with me”. (That was a joke from an above poster) I had to look that one up. I was talking to one guy (smudge) and contrary to what was posted I didn’t say everyone was a pussy for not debating me about pistol braces. Smudge said they were all garbage, every one. It was also the first (and last) time I have ever heard a forum member defend how reasonable and easy the NFA is. I disagreed with that, obviously. I pressed him for his real life experience of the SBA3 breaking. He apparently didn’t have one/want to provide one so he made a flippant mean spirited remark where I then told him to FO. The thread is there. Rifle room. Pros and cons of pistol braces. I was talking to one guy, smudge. Not quite what he posted. Look it up if you care.


Well, let's make it really easy for them. Is that really how that went?

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That is the post in question and to be clear there was one guy I was calling a p****. He was the only guy I was responding to in that entire thread.


Maybe, but you said:

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It gets tiring when you guys start acting like pussies because all of a sudden everybody doesn’t agree with every thing you say.


If you were trying to call me a pussy, then it seems cowardly to use the plural. My recollection was that you splashed everyone with it, not just me. What's more, you did it because I didn't want to argue your straw man about A3 stocks breaking and failing. I decided you weren't worth arguing with because the irony of that last bit somehow didn't occur to you. What could it possibly gain me to engage in a debate with a guy who wanted to have an intellectually dishonest argument?

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My wife told me to not respond when guys responded to things I never said. Of course she is right but I have trouble doing that.


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Facts matter. Context matters. Cherry picking a sentence out of context is bullshit.


Regarding the above quotes, you've cherry-picked something I didn't say and have repeated it more than once now, in a way meant to discredit and mock me. You don't like it when people put words in your mouth, but you're all-too-willing to do it to others. Find me the quote where I said the thing you've never seen anyone else on the forum say.


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Does anyone actually read threads anymore?

That quote from my wife was because I clearly and repeatedly referred to smultz who posted an entire preachy diatribe about how if you post a want ad it is your responsibility to monitor it. He even went so far as to say "well at least you didn't do it on this forum" Except for the small niggling detail that I didn't do it AT ALL. None of what he was preaching about happened except in his head.

That exchange took up an entire page of this 5+ page thread. I guess you missed that page. An entire page.

It isn't all about you Smudge. In fact none of it is. None of it. Your entry into this whole mess of a thread was when you waded in with absolutely nothing to say about the content of the thread. You waded in when I offered an olive branch/apology/outstretched hand. Your entire input to this thread is your perceived slight. That is it. Let us be very very clear. The post that made you lose your everloving mind is this:

"I, for one, would like to bury any hatchets my behavior over the years has engendered.
Anybody who wants to take me up on my offer is welcome to join me. Yea, even you
Hildur (attempt at a humorous apology)"

You weren't even on this thread until after that. And then you lost your fucking marbles because somehow you felt slighted. I don't even know how to respond to that.

On the previous thread you posted, which I actually don't know how to post a link (I don't know how the nested quote thing works either) which is why I gave the title to search with where I was arguing/discussing with you and you alone. Even the most cursory read would show that. If you want me to call you out directly, so be it, yes I was calling you that name because you were a dick on that thread and it pissed me off. If you want to grammatically break down the sentence and pretend I said "everyone on this forum was a pussy for not wanting to debate you on braces" you won't get far. I didn't say that, I didn't imply that. I was calling you a pussy for not being able to even mildly or rationally defend your statements and instead of doing many possible things, you just insulted me and I told you to fuck off and para rightfully got on my shit. I took a break from posting/lurking because I didn't want to get into more trouble while I was angry. So what? Para reached out and explained his view of where I went wrong and I have been trying to do what he asked since then. Clearly I have more work to do on that.

Either way even I recognize that no one except maybe Richard is benefitting from this thread. I am officially bowing out regardless of how you feel that makes me look. This thread can live or die but it will happen without me adding to it. If you want to hold a grudge because I didn't give you a personal apology, then so be it.
 
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I read the whole thread, I responded to your invitation after you made it. Now that it isn’t going the way you wanted, I’m the bad guy because you didn’t really mean it, and Jerry Springer and Disney or some shit. Ok. Razz

My issue with you is, and always has been, that you don’t seem to know how to disagree without being disagreeable. If you think any post in this thread is me losing my ever-loving mind, then it’s pure projection on your part.


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Damn guys, this has gotten crazy. I have a lot of respect for everyone involved here, you've all got great taste in guns, and I appreciate your shared knowledge and experience on the forum. Can we all just let it go and get back to talking about guns and shooting stuff now?

Sorry to try and ruin it for you, Richard Big Grin!

 
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Absent any further jabs, I’m happy to let it go right now. Smile


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Absent any further jabs, I’m happy to let it go right now. Smile


Bad news - Pedro has hacked and is posting from your account. Razz



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