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W07VH5 |
Thanks. I suppose if this were a prime example of a 1972 Marshall Super Bass then it'd be worth lawyering up, but it's not, it's just mine. If they won't budge I have no choice but to once again be let down and ripped off by family and friends. You'd think I'd be used to it by now but I'm not. My brother may be guilted into purchasing an amp but he's got it hard enough with his (w|l)ife. Jim has had a rough life recently, too. Perhaps karma is retroactive. | |||
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W07VH5 |
Thanks, my friend, for understanding. I appreciate it. | |||
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Little ray of sunshine |
And, for the record, I don't think you are in the wrong. Just the contrary. But vindicating your rights may be harder than it is worth. The fish is mute, expressionless. The fish doesn't think because the fish knows everything. | |||
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W07VH5 |
Thanks. You're correct. It's just a material item. It will also reveal the character of someone I called a friend for so long. We shall soon see. | |||
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Thank you Very little |
Pretty much that, it's a character test, in the end if you offer Jim the bucks he spent on the amp to get it working correctly it's probably going to be way less than the costs both financially and personally (time, effort, lost income elsewhere, etc) to get the amp. I'd just talk to Jim, ask him how much he spent and offer to reimburse him for it so you can get your amp back, if you get it, you get it, and move on with your amp. Your brother should have asked you before selling it, no doubt. | |||
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This!
No quarter .308/.223 | |||
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W07VH5 |
The short answer is "no, you can't have it. Get over it." This was the friend I posted about in the past that would always avoid me, not accept calls, never return texts. I always wondered what I did. Now I know, he was avoiding me due to guilt. He's a thief in my eyes and I'm better off without him. | |||
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Member |
Honestly, the real fault falls on your brother. Your brother may have sold it to Jim. I doubt your brother giving his financial situation gave it to Jim. But either way it's a real crappy situation. | |||
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W07VH5 |
You're right but Jim knew full well that it wss mine. He also kept the sale secret from me. He is not innocent. My brother was a raging drunk and that's probably why he can't remember the incident. Not saying he's not at fault but Jim took advantage of him as well. Had I done this years ago I'd have the law on my side but there you go. Dirt bags will be dirt bags no matter how friendly you are to them. I'll probably complain some more and then move on. Thanks for listening. | |||
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Nature is full of magnificent creatures |
Are you saying you contacted the guy with the amp, tried to talk to him about it, and he said this to you? If he knowingly bargained with your brother while your brother had an alcohol problem, that is really sad. I am sorry this happened to you. | |||
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I have not yet begun to procrastinate |
Vent all you want. You got the crappy end of the stick and your brother is the one that handed it to you. Jim isn't innocent by any means if he knew the situation but if you can't strike a deal with him that makes you happy, move on all the wiser from the experience. -------- After the game, the King and the pawn go into the same box. | |||
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posting without pants |
If it has really been "many years"... 1. How can you even claim it? 2. As many hands/years as it has passed through do you REALLY have a claim.... If it was that imprtant, why loan it. If not, who cares. Write them off as a friend and call it a deal.... Strive to live your life so when you wake up in the morning and your feet hit the floor, the devil says "Oh crap, he's up." | |||
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W07VH5 |
I meant to quote this to make a better reply below but edited it instead so my original reply is lost. I said something like "Time does make theft legal but never moral." I meant it as a lament and was not trying to imply anything toward KevinCW.This message has been edited. Last edited by: mark123, | |||
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posting without pants |
1. You asked a "legal" question in your post, not a moral question. I then simply asked for clarification. 2. Again, asking for clarification, I neither excused or judged ANYONE... and I resent the implication... Strive to live your life so when you wake up in the morning and your feet hit the floor, the devil says "Oh crap, he's up." | |||
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W07VH5 |
You're right, sorry. I want implying you were being immoral. It had been many years. It just doesn't make me feel better. | |||
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W07VH5 |
Dang it. I meant to quote this and I edited it instead. better answers. The loan was open ended, time didn't enter into the deal. 1. I paid for it. It's mine, I guess. 2. My brother's hands were the only ones I expected it to be in. I never needed it until recently. It's upsetting but I'm going to have to cultivate the who cares attitude and write them all off. Neither have been a brother or friend to me for a long time. I don't know why I expected a different response. I truly am being foolish. | |||
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The Unknown Stuntman |
Sorry to hear this, Mark. More than the loss of property, it really sucks that some of the people you should be able to count on most to have your back, don't. A man should be able to fall back on his brother or his friends, but I guess some vintage amp (or the measly few hundred bucks it brought them at the time) is more important to them than you are - which really sucks. I hope you get the gig - with the cover band, and I hope your luck takes a turn. Living well really is the best revenge. | |||
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W07VH5 |
Thanks, friend. You're right, the worst part really is being of less worth than worldly goods. I've let it go and let them go, too. All is forgiven but I'm not going to set myself up again. | |||
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Delusions of Adequacy |
How about another angle... "Hey, Bro, I know you don't have my old amp anymore, but I really need one for this new gig. Hook me up, OK?" I have my own style of humor. I call it Snarkasm. | |||
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Member |
HEY, see if your brother or Jim have a good amp you can "borrow" for a gig, then you know just keep it for a while.....like indefinately. | |||
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