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I went shopping at the HEB tonight.

As I started up my car, there was a knock on my window.

Feller younger than me, I'm 77, my height, stocky.

I rolled down the window, I lifted my shirt put my hand on my AIWB G19.

He said "I've locked myself out of my car, can you give me a lift?
I live right over there".

He pointed to an area which had no real residences.

I said "Sorry, no". It was about an hour before sundown.

I left. Was I being too cautious? Rude?

Thoughts?


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Anyone who can point to where they live can also walk there. I would have asked him if he had a spare key at his house or why he wanted to go there. Mrs. Lee only has one key for her car.
 
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You were correct in your decision. He can call UBER, or walk.


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Nobody died. Ya done good.
 
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You did right.



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You did the right thing.




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Did you call the store to alert them ?
Or
The local l.e. ?

He might be preying on the elderly, I say call it in.





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Survival instincts: gut feeling, intuition. Gavin de Becker talks about this in his book The Gift of Fear.
 
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They used to call them the heebie-jeebies when the alarm went off inside. I try to follow my senses....



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Same thing I would have done.


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You did good. A few months ago a guy asked me for gas money as I was getting in my car in the Publix parking lot. He supposedly needed money for gas but he did have thousands of dollars in “body art” all over him. I just said sorry and then lied and told him I don’t carry cash anymore.


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The only thing I wouldn't have done is rolled down the window. I'm not saying it was the wrong thing to do.....just putting it out there. I tend to be extremely rude when approached like that. I'd have told him to use a rock to gets into his car then left before he could use a rock on my car.

You weren't too cautious and definitely were not rude.
 
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I do not provide rides only lead. That would have been my answer. Same thing when the bums downtown pander for money. “I don’t carry cash or change, only lead”. They hear that and do a 180 instantly.



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Super hard when you’re raised to be a good and helpful person to say no, but I agree with the other posters. I’d notify the store, too. They can check on the welfare of the guy, or chase him out of their lot, if necessary.


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My initial Tuesday evening quarterback thought is why does someone knocking on your window make you feel the need to lift your shirt and put your hand on your gun? It strikes me as a little premature given the gentleman hasn’t said the first word to you.

Granted, I wasn’t there and am only trying to surmise an entire situation based on a few sentences on the internet.


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I think your response was pretty good.

And I think it is okay to put your hand on your pistol -- although I assume you did not let him see that you were armed.

Another typical ruse to get close to a victim is for the criminal to ask to borrow your cell phone. Don't do it! And in all of these situations, your head should be on a swivel looking for the second criminal actor who is going to blind-side you while the first person has your attention. Best bet is to decline politely and move off the X quickly.
 
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Nope, I would not let him in either. Too many ways that could go wrong.


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Should have said, "Where is your car? Show me the key in the ignition." Big Grin

No, you did right. Trust your instinct. Too many con artists roaming supermarket parking lots telling sob stories hoping for a bleeding heart to take a bite.


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There is a (small) possibility that he was legit. If so, maybe the next person will help him. The older I get the louder that little voice in the back gets, and the closer I listen to it. I might have only cracked the window, and I may or may not have put my hand on my pistol, but if it felt like the right thing for you to do, it probably was the right thing to do. I wasn’t there, you were. Besides, it pays to remember that when things go pear shaped, they often go pear shaped very quickly.
 
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The doctor who brought me into this world many decades ago was a good and selfless man. He picked up a hitchhiker back in the late 60's who slashed his throat and left the good doc slumped over and bleeding out behind the wheel. Stranger danger.



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