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I have always found it impossible to participate in these sort of things.
 
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Just participate and have fun with it.

I like the the picture with the skulls. I would caption it, "Me in my basement." Although I would not recommend it for you. I can do it because it's my style.



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Check with The H.R. dept.
They have two lists.

One involves questions or discussions that are acceptable ,prior to hiring,
and another is

Questions or conversations that are acceptable after hiring.

The should have two lists of unacceptable subjects as well.





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Originally posted by Aeteocles:
I would just participate and make up answers that are not real or applicable to you.


agree I play the game by keeping the answers as bland as possible

no need to over-think it

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Make your answers a bland and boring as possible.
You don't want to attract attention in any way.

And don't mention guns. Nobody needs to know you like, or have, guns.



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Answer the way your Grandmother would.
 
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meet them part way and send the second pic without any answers to the questions
 
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Just be.... Bland.
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Fuck off is at the top of my list .....



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Originally posted by Aeteocles:
I would just participate and make up answers that are not real or applicable to you.


Bingo. Fake it and just play along, not worth the hassle, time or brain power of pushing back and dealing with the fallout.


Yep. I’d do whatever feels like the equivalent of a polite smile and nod. You probably won’t be the only one.


Yup.

As a PM he should know; there's the right answer and then there's the politically correct answer.

While the right answer, in this case, might be, "buzz off, I ain't playing your silly managerial games" the politically, I'm a team player answer would be, "Silence of the Lambs, disrupting a PM's unachievable schedule" etc.






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Where's the option of just ignoring the whole thing?




Be careful when following the masses. Sometimes the M is silent.
 
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Where's the option of just ignoring the whole thing?


Some managerial types get a wild hair up their ass and see that as someone who's not a team player then make it a life mission to get rid of said someone. Wink






Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.



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Where's the option of just ignoring the whole thing?
I thought so as well, but I get the impression from the OP that this isn't an option. Another vote for being as bland and inoffensive as possible.
 
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Bland and inoffensive is the right approach.
Despite the fact that the real answer to the question "I am at my best when" is:

"when project managers actually manage the project, accurately report on status, do not pretend to know the technical aspects and do not engage in bullshit like this".

Is the answer you REALLY want to send back.



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I agree with the others who indicated to just play the game.
Just keep track of what you put forth in case it comes up again with your team members.




 
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I agree with the others who indicated to just play the game.
Just keep track of what you put forth in case it comes up again with your team members.
Hey, one's favorites frequently change. Women allegedly do it all the time.

flashguy




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Originally posted by 357fuzz:
Ask if this a corporation of adults or the high school year book committee?



This shit has permeated corporate america. Our home office has a similar stupid game they play, and youre supposed to start meetings with your feelings... I'm Vaalic and I had to kill my neighbors last night for keeping me up with the hum of their refrigerator, so I may be a little distracted today.

Stupid shit like that. I

The millennials and stupid managers eat this shit up, instead of getting any real work done.




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You guys are so dull! Frayed was just trying to have some fun: He didn't want our advice!! Your replies show that you are all pussywhipped. Lighten up, people! (geez)
 
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