Before I forget to say it, thanks to all who offered some experiences.
Now as for eHarmony, I have tried it this week. The function of the website is modest, does NOT always work, search function never does, and an age filter I updated will not change. It crops photos, not just mine but a high % of profiles I view have chopped heads and half of something as well. I cannot believe it is at an Etch-A-Sketch level in this day and age.
Despite all, hope it works out for all of us who are still looking.
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The plural of anecdote is not data. -Frank Kotsonis