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My mom had to go to an assisted living place. Then they said they couldn't take her anymore, so she had to go to a nursing home. I said fuck that. She's lived with me for 3 years now. "Ninja kick the damn rabbit" | |||
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Do you have a wife or is it just you and your mother? I ask because that can make a big difference. That can add an immense amount of stress to a household. That and the status of your mothers physical and mental condition. "Practice like you want to play in the game" | |||
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Very wise to get this in legal language before it's needed. We were in the process of finding a place for dad when his body gave out and made it a moot point. Fortunately mom recognized she/we couldn't keep him home safely and she was on board. Circling back, it's easy to say you never want to be a burden and to send you away. Unfortunately the cognitive state often deteriorates and one refuses to recognize it's time for the move. | |||
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Is in home care an option to help reduce burden on your father? Pronoun: His Royal Highness and benevolent Majesty of all he surveys 343 - Never Forget Its better to be Pavlov's dog than Schrodinger's cat There are three types of mistakes; Those you learn from, those you suffer from, and those you don't survive. | |||
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We are doing that three days a week for approx 90 mins each day. Along with our family's help. It is to the point where that is not nearly enough. 24 hour in home care is not available and that is about what is required. Not for my father currently, but for my mother. "Practice like you want to play in the game" | |||
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My Aunt had dementia. We kept her home with us until she went to hospice. She opened the front door and wandered away once. We changed the lock to a double-sided keyed lock after that. We checked out some nursing homes. they were not up to the standards I would put a relative in. She was not a pleasant person, but she was family. She could be left alone for short periods. She mostly spent her days sitting in the living room, not doing much. | |||
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My brother found an RN to care for my s.i.l. ( with Alzheimer's ) at home. She quit the nursing home / memory care facility she was working at ,to help him five days per week. At half the cost of the nursing home. Janet is very happy as is my brother. Safety, Situational Awareness and proficiency. Neck Ties, Hats and ammo brass, Never ,ever touch'em w/o asking first | |||
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