My sibling is gone

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343 - Never Forget

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There are three types of mistakes; Those you learn from, those you suffer from, and those you don't survive.

February 28, 2026, 11:12 AM

irreverent

quote:
Originally posted by WKirk:
I am so sorry to hear this. I feel all your emotions. On Aug 30 this past year my mom found my brother, alone on his couch. I live five minutes away and I'll never forget my mom's phone call telling me to get over here.
He was 46, and we too for the last 20 years or so have tried everything. Like you, I saw the writing on the wall. It took a little time, but for me, I have been able to find at least a little peace knowing his struggles are gone.
My prayers are with you.

You feel me. That is exactly it. I received a call from my father when I was 15 minutes away, but hours too late. The saddest thing is that for my folks, this is their second child to pass before them. In this day and age, parents shouldn’t have to endure one, much less two.

P220, monkey, I have corresponded with you privately and personally. There is more to this situation. I’m hoping you have room for more inbound email.

And I thank you all for listening/reading, and commenting; I have been unable to know where to turn to and I know the experience that exists on the forum is far beyond what I have available to me locally, and will remain private.

I’m absolutely crushed.

February 28, 2026, 11:21 AM

P220 Smudge

quote:
P220, monkey, I have corresponded with you privately and personally. There is more to this situation. I’m hoping you have room for more inbound email.

Always.

February 28, 2026, 11:26 AM

StorminNormin

I am so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.

February 28, 2026, 01:23 PM

Marlin Fan

My thoughts are with you and your family

February 28, 2026, 02:00 PM

Cookster

My sincere condolences to you and your family.

February 28, 2026, 02:45 PM

chellim1

Condolences and prayers for you and your family. Sorry for your loss.

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