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Got a call yesterday from my 93 year old dad informing me that my mom, 83, suffered a massive stroke while sleeping. From his tone, I knew things were not good. She had been fine Friday night, up watching the NCAA tournament. Packed up the family and got to my hometown as quickly as we could and met dad back at the hospital. Mom was a little alert and seemed to recognize me, my wife and our kids. We’d get a little smile and faint squeeze from her hand. That warmed my heart. Doctor came in and explained that she had multiple brain bleeds and, at her age and the location, there was nothing they could do. Any attempt to slow or stop the bleeding would cause more damage. So, we had to make the choice to put her in hospice and make her as comfortable as an be. Without the ability to swallow and because both mom and dad have DNR orders, she will not be fed nor given any IVs. So now we wait. She appears to be comfortable, but without the ability to speak, who really knows. I still see her in her eyes and I know she’s in there. But my bucket is running very low. My biggest concern is my dad...he’s scared...not of losing mom, but of being alone and not knowing what to do. I’ve witnessed the caring and concern from this forum more than I can count and I guess I’m needing some of that...for me, my family, my dad and for my mom’s peacefulness. Thanks everyone...  UPDATE: Thank you everyone for the kind words, prayers and assurance. After 24 hours of struggle, my wonderful, beautiful mother passed gracefully and peacefully at 6:19am this morning. I was blessed to be by her side with my dad, my wife, my oldest sister and her son when she took one final breath and went to be with God. I will miss her greatly, but find comfort in knowing she is in a better place now. Dad and I have had little sleep, but we have managed to stay busy today and not dwell on things. Again, thank you for helping me through this rough 48 hours!!!This message has been edited. Last edited by: JDHunz, ___________________________ "Those that can't laugh at themselves leave the job to others..." | ||
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One Who Knows |
Prayers sent, may you and your family have Peace. | |||
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Prayers for you and the family ... RB Cancer fighter (Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma) since 2009, now fighting Diffuse Large B-Cell Lymphoma. | |||
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Best thoughts from here. Be careful when following the masses. Sometimes the M is silent. | |||
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Prayers sent for your Mom and Dad. | |||
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May you lean on the comfort of God, and knowing that a lot of people here care about you and your family, and are lifting you and especially your mom and dad up in their prayers. | |||
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Prayers sent. You're an awesome son to love and care for your parents like you do. "The Truth, when first uttered, is always considered heresy." | |||
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| Gone but Together Again. Dad & Uncle  |
Prayers said and sent, all while bleary eyed, because your story reminds me of my parents situation not that long ago. May all of you find peace and know your invisible friends are here for each of you. | |||
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Prayers sent. May you and your family find comfort in these times! Sigs P-220, P-226 9mm, & P-230SL (CCW) | |||
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Prayers being lifted up for your family right now! ____________________________ Bill R. North Alabama _____________________________ I just can't quit grinnin' from all of this winnin'! | |||
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prayers up; lots of prayers. "I don't shoot well, but I shoot often." - Pres. T. Roosevelt | |||
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My prayers are with you and your family. "If you think everything's going to be alright, you don't understand the problem!"- Gutpile Charlie "A man's got to know his limitations" - Harry Callahan | |||
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Sorry to hear this friend. Praying for strength for you and your father. 10mm lays waste to entire cities, cuts through diamonds and will tear Superman a new asshole. - Parabellum Sex offenders can not be rehabilitated. It's in their wiring. They should not be released back into the general public. On the other hand they should not be warehoused either. I think they should be executed.....Spectre When someone tries to kill you, it doesn't matter how they are doing it. You're in mortal danger, and it's time to try to kill them back. Arc. ___ Kill every last one of these goddamned animals. We need a president with balls. We need leadership. We should be carpet bombing these barbarians wherever we find them, and we should be looking for them 24/7. We have to unleash Hell upon them. They understand nothing but death, so death is what we should bring them, wholesale.... Para I left "practical" behind many years ago. It was covered with my first Glock 19. (Fredward) | |||
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Praying for you and your family in this difficult time --- Diligentia, Vis, Celeritas | |||
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You’re all in my prayers. | |||
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So sorry to hear this. Your Mom and your family will be in my prayers. _____________________________________________________________________ “One of the common failings among honorable people is a failure to appreciate how thoroughly dishonorable some other people can be, and how dangerous it is to trust them.” – Thomas Sowell | |||
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All our prayers for y’all. Bill Gullette | |||
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May the Lord bless you and keep you May the Lord make His face shine upon you And be gracious to you May the The Lord lift up His countenance upon you And give you peace. _____________________________ Pledge allegiance or pack your bag! The problem with Socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money. - Margaret Thatcher Spread my work ethic, not my wealth | |||
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You guys getting to see her is quite the blessing. Too many don't get that chance. Prayers for your father and whole family. Jesse Sic Semper Tyrannis | |||
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I am sorry. Praying for you and your family. | |||
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