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Friendship and $$$ decisions

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May 08, 2017, 10:13 PM
DMF
Friendship and $$$ decisions
quote:
Originally posted by greco:
He is a friend. But when it comes to gun deals he is strictly business. I have gone out of the way to give him good deals on my sales to him. It is reaching the point where I feel like I am getting bent over. I have never gotten a "deal" from this chap, always market value. So I guess that is why I feel I will not continue to feel like I am being used. Thank you for the advice.
Everything after what I put in bold, directly contradicts what is in bold.


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May 09, 2017, 06:10 AM
12131
If I were OP, I wouldn't call this guy a "friend". He's just an acquaintance I deal guns with. Sure, you guys share common interest in gun types whatever, but that's about it, from the info provided so far. So, in other words, screw him, I say. Smile


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May 09, 2017, 08:07 AM
mikeyspizza
I'd offer them to him at a discount to the market price.
May 09, 2017, 01:54 PM
41
Looks like a one way street to me. I would be them on Gun Broker and be done with it.


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May 09, 2017, 05:58 PM
MikeinNC
it's your gun

not his

If there was no agreement that you would offer him first shot at it IF you sell it in the future, then he needs to STFU



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May 09, 2017, 05:59 PM
sigmonkey
Lend him $20.




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May 09, 2017, 07:04 PM
Expat
quote:
Originally posted by greco:
He is a friend. But when it comes to gun deals he is strictly business. I have gone out of the way to give him good deals on my sales to him. It is reaching the point where I feel like I am getting bent over. I have never gotten a "deal" from this chap, always market value. So I guess that is why I feel I will not continue to feel like I am being used. Thank you for the advice.


As should be you, strictly business.
May 09, 2017, 07:26 PM
Strambo
Yeah, if your relationship over the years was deals both ways that would be one thing. But if it's you cutting him a deal while he always charges you market price, forget that dude.




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May 09, 2017, 07:33 PM
mr kablammo
Sell for the profit yourself.


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May 09, 2017, 08:25 PM
dewhorse
My best friend and do this occasionally, he has said to me "hey, this one stays in the family" and I have done the same.

But if I were in a tight spot and had to sell he would either pay real value or understand that I had to sell it....and I would do the same.

But he is a real friend
May 14, 2017, 01:48 PM
armedprof
First Suggestion - KARMA... Smile

If you value the friendship, quit buying and selling to each other. It only leads to these types of issues.

For these pieces, keep them. If you need the money badly, put them up for sale on the Forum and tell him another friend wanted them for their collection.





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