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E tan e epi tas |
I was reading the thread about the Jason Hairston suicide and seeing folks wonder why etc. Now let me preface by saying I am not looking for a 12 gauge mouthwash. So I don’t need an intervention. Now that being said....I have the American Dream. Good job, wife, kid, disposable income, friends, etc. etc. I am not RICH but I want for nothing material. All that being said I have and continue to wrestle with my own demons, my own nialistic thoughts. Some days really can be fairly overwhelming with any number or fears or issues or bitches and moans. (As I know my bitches and moans and feckless bullshit to folks with......well real problems) My point is, live long enough and I would imagine more the most of us wrestle with some demon or another. I am a bastard and the occasional asshole but that fact helps me temper my interactions with others because if I wrestle with demons then surely those with real problems do and therefore those who have conquered the world do as well. My point is life is a bitch.....period. Rich, poor, successful or not. Everybody gets their share of shit and sometimes those folks who have everything suffer more because they know they have no right to. Just food for thought. "Guns are tools. The only weapon ever created was man." | ||
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| Blinded by the Sun  |
Jason Hairston posted that he had all the symptoms of CTE. He stated he grew up playing football leading with his head. He died of a brain disease, the suicide was a symptom. ------------------------------ Smart is not something you are but something you get. Chi Chi, get the yayo | |||
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Certified All Positions |
Well Gee. I'm glad that's an open and shut case... No need to look any deeper.... Especially because all the facts are in, and we know everything about what precipitated his death. Horseshit. People like neat little packages. So, naturally, some people escape criticism in death, and others get derided as weak, selfish, etc. etc. Everyone is human, and yes, even the famous are vulnerable. What is not true in any case, be it a famous person or an unknown, is that everything is neat and tidy. That's just how we want it. Neat and tidy. The reality is that the reasons leading to a suicide, or OD, or any premature death, are complex, messy, and human. Success and fame are no panacea against depression, mental illness, addiction, and many other things that affect the rest of us. Arc. ______________________________ "Like a bitter weed, I'm a bad seed"- Johnny Cash "I'm a loner, Dottie. A rebel." - Pee Wee Herman Rode hard, put away wet. RIP JHM "You're a junkyard dog." - Lupe Flores. RIP | |||
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| E tan e epi tas |
Arc, I don’t understand, that was kinda my point. "Guns are tools. The only weapon ever created was man." | |||
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Tinker Sailor Soldier Pie |
Well, I think he was mostly referring to Gator's post about CTE being the cause of Jason's death. ~Alan Acta Non Verba NRA Life Member (Patron) God, Family, Guns, Country Men will fight and die to protect women... because women protect everything else. ~Andrew Klavan | |||
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| E tan e epi tas |
My bad, sorry. I missed that. "Guns are tools. The only weapon ever created was man." | |||
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| Blinded by the Sun |
The way I see it, it's not about s neat and tidy conclusion. Or life is a bitch deal with it. The man engaged in an activity where he repetitively hit his head and caused brain damage. He acknowledged that. Suicide depression etc are symptoms. NFL players with post mortem CTE Jovan Belcher[4] Forrest Blue[5] Bill Bryant[6] Lew Carpenter[7] Dwight Clark[8] Daniel Colchico[6] Lou Creekmur[9] Art DeCarlo[6] Shane Dronett[10] Dave Duerson[11][12] Pete Duranko[6] Ray Easterling[12][13][14] Frank Gifford[12][15] Cookie Gilchrist[12][16] John Grimsley[17] Chris Henry[12][18] Aaron Hernandez[19] Jim Hudson[6] Gerry Huth[6] Tom Keating[6] Terry Long[1] Rob Lytle[20] John Mackey[12][21] Ollie Matson[12][22] Tom McHale[12][23] Earl Morrall[24] Paul Oliver[6] Joe O'Malley[6] Mike Pyle[6] Adrian Robinson[25] Scott Ross [26] Tyler Sash[12][27] Junior Seau[12][28] Bubba Smith[12][29] Robert Sowell[6] Ken Stabler[12][30] Justin Strzelczyk[12] Mosi Tatupu[31] Kevin Turner[32] Andre Waters[12] Mike Webster[12] Ralph Wenzel[12] John Wilbur[6] ------------------------------ Smart is not something you are but something you get. Chi Chi, get the yayo | |||
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Oriental Redneck |
"Life is a bitch" only if you choose to make it a bitch. Q | |||
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| 186,000 miles per second. It's the law. |
Now that is the post of the day. Agreed. | |||
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| Leatherneck |
Or...someone chooses to make it a bitch for you. Sometimes you do everything you can and someone else who took the same vows you did turns out to be a liar and fuck your whole world up. “Everybody wants a Sig in the sheets but a Glock on the streets.” -bionic218 04-02-2014 | |||
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| Conservative Behind Enemy Lines  |
Everything in life comes down to perspective. Ask someone in a western nation what his biggest desire is. Then go ask a mother in a third-world country what her biggest wish is. His might be anything from a big screen TV to a nicer car. Hers will be food and shelter for her children. I would say to anyone who pretty much has it made in our country, and who battles depression: Wake the Hell up! Is it going to take losing everything for you to realize how well off you are? Get some perspective, man! Go visit lonely old widows in the old folks homes; go ladle out some soup in a soup kitchen in the inner city; think about becoming a foster parent. True joy in life comes from helping others. I know that sounds ridiculous, but I have seen the truth of that statement born out in the lives of many people. This is why narcissists are never truly joyful. It is a real paradox of humanity.
Still, it depends on your perspective. Imagine some no-good, unfaithful, ungrateful wife cheats on her husband. Then, imagine he also finds out he has cancer. A week later, after tests, his doctor announces to him that his medical staff accidentally confused his tests with another patient's tests, and he doesn't have cancer at all. The incredibly great news that he doesn't have cancer after all might just mitigate the bad news of finding out his wife is worthless. The possibilities of a wonderful life without the cheating bitch is now a reality! Hoo-ray! | |||
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| Oriental Redneck |
It's still you to choose to make life a bitch or not. I'l give you a perfect example, Jesus Christ.  Q | |||
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| If you see me running try to keep up  |
There are people in much much worse situations who don’t kill themselves, no matter what he had he chose to take his life. Like someone stated on the other thread, people used to play football with leather helmets and went on to live long lives without killing themselves. Blaming it on CTE and acting like he had nothing to do with his suicide makes no sense. I’m sure his 10year old son wishes his dad would have touched it out. Yes it’s his choice to take his own life but I can’t help but think about the effect on his child. I grew up with people whose parents committed suicide and it has a great impact on the kids. | |||
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| Savor the limelight |
Well that falls into the life is a bitch and then you marry one category. | |||
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| I believe in the principle of Due Process  |
This is a central theme of Jordan Peterson’s talks and writings. 12 Rules etc. Luckily, I have enough willpower to control the driving ambition that rages within me. When you had the votes, we did things your way. Now, we have the votes and you will be doing things our way. This lesson in political reality from Lyndon B. Johnson "Some things are apparent. Where government moves in, community retreats, civil society disintegrates and our ability to control our own destiny atrophies. The result is: families under siege; war in the streets; unapologetic expropriation of property; the precipitous decline of the rule of law; the rapid rise of corruption; the loss of civility and the triumph of deceit. The result is a debased, debauched culture which finds moral depravity entertaining and virtue contemptible." - Justice Janice Rogers Brown | |||
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| Member |
Successful people can be driven and their worst critics can be themselves. IMHO most people reach a point of- I'm happy with what I have. Other's don't and either succeed or flame out in the process. ____________________________________________________ The butcher with the sharpest knife has the warmest heart. | |||
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| I believe in the principle of Due Process |
“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” —Winston Churchill Luckily, I have enough willpower to control the driving ambition that rages within me. When you had the votes, we did things your way. Now, we have the votes and you will be doing things our way. This lesson in political reality from Lyndon B. Johnson "Some things are apparent. Where government moves in, community retreats, civil society disintegrates and our ability to control our own destiny atrophies. The result is: families under siege; war in the streets; unapologetic expropriation of property; the precipitous decline of the rule of law; the rapid rise of corruption; the loss of civility and the triumph of deceit. The result is a debased, debauched culture which finds moral depravity entertaining and virtue contemptible." - Justice Janice Rogers Brown | |||
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goodheart |
Our men’s Bible study group was discussing this recently. All of us were pretty successful by usual standards—-some of them spectacularly so—but almost every one has been hit by some family tragedy over which they had no control. If you live long enough and love enough people, you will be carrying a lot of pain and loss. As Brit Hume said, everyone you meet is carrying a great deal of pain about which you know nothing. His response: “Be kind. Always be kind.” _________________________ “Remember, remember the fifth of November!" | |||
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So true..definitely something to remember! | |||
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