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I do. I have lived in this community a long time and know a lot of people. I like to keep up with things. Some of my buddies think it is morbid. What are your thoughts?
 
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I only read the obituaries when somebody I know died because I want to see what they said about the deceased.





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since i don't get any local newspapers anymore i check the local funeral homes obits about every other day. I missed a good friends dad passing that i would have made a appearance at the visitation, and hope to not miss another one that i should show some respects
 
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Used to when I still got a newspaper. Haven't had a paper delivered in years though, so no.


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Yes!
I want to see if Im in there.


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No, never read them.


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I semi-regularly check the newspaper obits online of the town I grew up in the’50s to ‘70’s. Have many more friends from that era than currently.
 
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Yes, well, until it gets overwhelming .

I had to knock it off a while back.
Two people that I knew of and two that I knew well "went" in one week.

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I’m subscribed to the obituary service for my small hometown funeral home. I handle our high school graduation class bulletin board so I share those with fellow classmates from time to time. We’re 40-something years out now and, unfortunately, have had several classmates make an unwelcome appearance in those obits in recent years.


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This is a small town, and if someone I know loses a loved one, I want to be able to express my condolences to them and offer any help they may need. So, yes, I check the obituaries online frequently.
 
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No. If I'm close enough to you that it matters, I'll know when you're dead. I won't need to read about it in the paper.

I also don't like viewings. Standing in the visitation line at my Grandmother's viewing was one of the most awful, emotionally exhausting things that I've ever had to do. I also find the whole custom of making up a dead body and putting it on display to be repulsive. I'd rather remember people how they were in life than have my last memory be their dolled up cadaver. When I die, I hope they incinerate my corpse and have a party.
 
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[quote]I'd rather remember people how they were in life than have my last memory be their dolled up cadaver. When I die, I hope they incinerate my corpse and have a party.
 
If you truly feel that way decide which funeral home you want and have a chat. If you want you pay for a life insurance policy in their name and have YOUR wishes are carried out. Otherwise it is up to your survivors to decide. Even a cardboard box cremation is expensive.
 
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I don't read all the obits, but do look for familiar names. At this point many are younger folks than myself. It's a habit from about 30 years ago after working inpatient floors at the local hospital, checking for former patients.
 
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I read the obits in 3 papers regularly and check the local funeral home in my home town. Like an earlier poster, I am responsible for keeping my classmates informed. I also look at the other classes that were close to ours and look for siblings also.

I am a historian and there is so much history in the obits of ordinary folks.
 
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Used to when I still got a newspaper. Haven't had a paper delivered in years though, so no.

My Dad still gets the paper. I don’t. He reads them. He’s in his 80’s and has lost most of his friends. He lets me know when he thinks it’s someone I know.



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No. I don't get a newspaper or read any online and I don't live in towns where I would know anyone.

Coincidentally though, I received a message from a high school classmate just a while ago, that another of our classmates had died.




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Read the whole damn paper everyday, including the obits!
 
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I don't read obits at all, let alone regularly.
 
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