Just to let you know, you are not alone. My story has some similarities, got tired of being lied about and only good for the money. I tried, been six years now since I last heard from or seen my son. Did send a few Christmas cards at first but no response so I just let it be. Child supports ends in November and I bet I will hear something then, looking forward to laughing at and hanging up on her. If my son ever tries to make contact I will give it another shot but if I get the feeling its financial I will tell him nice try and sorry that his Mom ruined him.