SIGforum
serving in a wedding party ? (poll)
August 10, 2020, 11:58 AM
bendableserving in a wedding party ? (poll)
just out of curiosity <BR>have you?Am talk specifically about up on the stage,<BR>not parking cars or playing your organ or <BR>being the bouncer or ring bearer<BR><BR>have you been?<BR><BR>oh, not the one getting married eitherYes , was a best manbest man more than oncegroomsman oncegroomsman more than onceboth groomsman and best mannever , either of those two, ever never been askedI have officiatedHave officiated more than onceneither, I refused to participateno, but I nailed the bride
Safety, Situational Awareness and proficiency.
Neck Ties, Hats and ammo brass, Never ,ever touch'em w/o asking first
August 10, 2020, 01:52 PM
cheesegritsYou left off "bride's maid" and "maid of honor." I've served as maid of honor once. It was an enjoyable experience since my friend, like me, is a no-nonsense kinda gal. No drama and a good bar.
You also left off "no, but I nailed the groom," which I suppose could apply to the gents around here as well as us ladies.

August 10, 2020, 02:00 PM
Lord VaalicI would have to select many of these, not just one.
Been a best man several times, been a goomsman more than once, have officiated, did refuse once, and no comment on the nailing of the bride
Don't weep for the stupid, or you will be crying all day August 10, 2020, 02:22 PM
HRKI did have one of the bridesmaids show me her squeezebox and ask if I wanted to play all night....
August 10, 2020, 03:42 PM
BlackmoreI checked officiated since as a Justice of the Peace that's what I've done the most. Right now my batting average - so to speak - is just under .500
I've also been a best man and a groomsman a few times.
Oops, missed the more than once box.
Harshest Dream, Reality
August 10, 2020, 03:53 PM
erj_pilotBoth a BM and GM more than once...
"If you’re a leader, you lead the way. Not just on the easy ones; you take the tough ones too…” – MAJ Richard D. Winters (1918-2011), E Company, 2nd Battalion, 506th Parachute Infantry Regiment, 101st Airborne
"Woe to those who call evil good, and good evil... Therefore, as tongues of fire lick up straw and as dry grass sinks down in the flames, so their roots will decay and their flowers blow away like dust; for they have rejected the law of the Lord Almighty and spurned the word of the Holy One of Israel." - Isaiah 5:20,24 August 10, 2020, 05:08 PM
corsairMy mid-30's was a fun time and hell on my checking account. Served as BM once, and groomsman at 3 separate weddings.
August 10, 2020, 05:41 PM
LS1 GTOquote:
Originally posted by HRK:
I did have one of the bridesmaids show me her squeezebox and ask if I wanted to play all night....
I'd have walked away - I hate the sound of any accordion.

Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
"If dogs don't go to Heaven, I want to go where they go" Will Rogers
The definition of the words we used, carry a meaning of their own...
August 10, 2020, 07:34 PM
YellowJacketI've been best man a couple of times, been a groomsman probably 6 or 7 times, sung in weddings another 3 or 4.
I'm gonna vote for the funniest frog with the loudest croak on the highest log. August 11, 2020, 03:10 AM
YooperSigsGroomsman several times. Always for "starter" marriages.
End of Earth: 2 Miles
Upper Peninsula: 4 Miles
August 11, 2020, 08:10 AM
myrottietyBeen Best man once.
Officiated x3 with another planned for next year.
Train how you intend to Fight
Remember - Training is not sparring. Sparring is not fighting. Fighting is not combat. August 11, 2020, 09:09 AM
benny6I gave away a bride once as her father was the pastor and officiated the wedding. Been a groomsman a few times.
Tony.
Owner, TonyBen, LLC, Type-07 FFL
www.tonybenm14.com (Site under construction).
e-mail: tonyben@tonybenm14.com
August 14, 2020, 09:40 PM
jhe888quote:
Originally posted by HRK:
I did have one of the bridesmaids show me her squeezebox and ask if I wanted to play all night....
In and out and in and out...
The fish is mute, expressionless. The fish doesn't think because the fish knows everything. August 16, 2020, 07:17 AM
StarTravelerI was best man in my friend’s wedding. They’ve been married 34 years.
The next year, the best friend (above) served as best man at our third friend’s wedding and I was one of the groomsmen. I’d introduced the groom to the bride; now they’ve been married for 33 years.
The year after that, the best friend returned the favor and was the best friend in my wedding and the third friend was one of my groomsmen. My wife and I have been married for 32 years.
Hmmm. I just realized that several of our other friends who didn’t include us in their weddings are now on marriage 2 or 3.

***
"Aut viam inveniam aut faciam (I will either find a way or make one)." -- Hannibal Barca
August 16, 2020, 08:50 AM
maxwayneI have been best man twice. Once was for my oldest and dearest childhood friend and the 2nd was for a college roommate. Neither marriage lasted very long. I was an usher for my brother and a good younger friend. Neither of those lasted either. Maybe best you don't ask me.
When I ushered for my young friend, I didn't have to have the tux back until 5 on Monday. I had paid for the thing, so I wore it to work on Monday. I met a VP in the hall and she thought it was hilarious. I sold cars for a large insurance company.
August 18, 2020, 02:56 AM
bendableAlter boy, is as close as I got to " serving"
Safety, Situational Awareness and proficiency.
Neck Ties, Hats and ammo brass, Never ,ever touch'em w/o asking first
August 18, 2020, 08:57 AM
Pykerquote:
Originally posted by jhe888:
quote:
Originally posted by HRK:
I did have one of the bridesmaids show me her squeezebox and ask if I wanted to play all night....
In and out and in and out...
Did the dog get any sleep?
August 18, 2020, 03:31 PM
Blackmorequote:
Originally posted by jhe888:
quote:
Originally posted by HRK:
I did have one of the bridesmaids show me her squeezebox and ask if I wanted to play all night....
In and out and in and out...
Down and up; up and down...
Harshest Dream, Reality