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Help me address a letter to a former service member

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September 18, 2026, 12:35 PM
apprentice
Help me address a letter to a former service member
My uncle has a veterans trip to D.C. later this fall.
Part of it is a "mail call" and I'd like to know how to properly address the letter I'll be writing for him.

He served in the Navy late in the 50s and early 60s, and was a Signalman 3rd Class according to his wife.

The rest of the innerwebs can't agree on much as usual, so here I am asking genuine experts.
Thanks in advance.
September 18, 2026, 12:54 PM
jprebb
I would start off the salutation with "Petty Officer <his last name>/".

Hope this helps.

JP
September 18, 2026, 01:19 PM
SpinZone
I would address it your uncle by name, not his rank.

Its a personal letter and the formalities would come across awkwardly to me if I received one.



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September 18, 2026, 01:24 PM
V-Tail
Is this question about the salutation within the letter, or the address on the envelope?

I would address the envelope to "John Smith, SM3" and in the letter I would say something like "Dear Uncle John."



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September 18, 2026, 01:49 PM
BigSwede
Dear Uncle Squid,

Blah blah blah


September 18, 2026, 03:41 PM
apprentice
quote:
Originally posted by V-Tail:
Is this question about the salutation within the letter, or the address on the envelope?

I would address the envelope to "John Smith, SM3" and in the letter I would say something like "Dear Uncle John."


Thank you
September 18, 2026, 05:12 PM
KP93
quote:
Originally posted by V-Tail:
Is this question about the salutation within the letter, or the address on the envelope?

I would address the envelope to "John Smith, SM3" and in the letter I would say something like "Dear Uncle John."


I absolutely concur with this approach!
Very Respectfully,
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September 18, 2026, 05:39 PM
LS1 GTO
quote:
Originally posted by BigSwede:
Dear Uncle Squid,

Blah blah blah


"Dear Squidly Diddly"

(recommends the retired squid. Big Grin)






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