Woman accused of stalking Paradise Valley man she met online; sent him 65,000 text messages
PARADISE VALLEY, Ariz. - A woman is accused of breaking into a Paradise Valley home, bathing in the victim’s bathtub and sending tens of thousands of disturbing text messages to the man’s phone after the pair went on one date.
In July 2017, 31-year-old Jacqueline Ades was found parked outside of the victim’s home, police said. The man also accused her of repeatedly texting him, despite him saying he no longer wanted to talk to her.
Officers found Ades still outside the victim’s home when they arrived and told her to leave, officials said. Shortly after, the man started to receive threatening text messages from the suspect.
Police received a similar report in December from the same residence but officers were unable to locate her.
On April 8, the victim called a detective a third time, saying he was out of the country but saw Ades in his home while checking his home surveillance video.
When officers arrived at the home, the woman was taking a bath, police said.
A large butcher knife was discovered on the passenger’s seat of her car, court paperwork said. She was taken into custody and charged with trespassing.
After Ades was released from jail, she allegedly started sending more threatening text messages to the victim — some of the messages alluded that “harm may come to him,” authorities said.
Less than three weeks later, the victim called authorities to report receiving multiple threatening text messages from her, court documents said. The man also explained that they met on a dating website and after one date Ades began stalking and harassing him.
Ades allegedly sent about 65,000 text messages to the man’s phone. The victim said that she sent about 500 text messages to him a day, court documents said.
In one of Ades' messages, she allegedly stated, “…Don’t ever try to leave me…I’ll kill you...I don't wanna be a murderer." She also said that she wanted to wear his body parts and bathe in his blood, court paperwork said.
On May 4, police were called to a business in Scottsdale after passersby reported Ades "acting irrationally" and claiming to be the owner's wife," police said. The owner of the business is the Paradise Valley resident.
Ades was arrested on Tuesday on charges of threatening, stalking and harassment.
While being questioned by police, the suspect explained that she sent the man text messages all day but he never responded, court documents said. She said that she threatened him because she was worried he had called police to report her behavior.
The woman is also accused of admitting that she threatened him because she didn’t want him to leave and because she loved him, court paperwork said. She allegedly admitted to knowing her statements were “crazy” and plans to return to Florida once she's released.
“Facts are stubborn things; and whatever may be our wishes, our inclinations, or the dictates of our passions, they cannot alter the state of facts and evidence.” - John Adams
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May 10, 2018, 02:00 PM
BamaJeepster
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Originally posted by parabellum: Seems reasonable to me.
I thought the threat of wanting to wear his body parts and bathe in his blood was a nice touch...
“Facts are stubborn things; and whatever may be our wishes, our inclinations, or the dictates of our passions, they cannot alter the state of facts and evidence.” - John Adams
May 10, 2018, 02:00 PM
Skull Leader
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and plans to return to Florida once she's released.
Florida, you say?
May 10, 2018, 02:01 PM
Rightwire
Most of us read "#metoo" as "Pound me too". Not sure that is what she had in mind, but clearly she's a Canadian $1 coin.
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May 10, 2018, 02:19 PM
YooperSigs
Looking really happy in your booking photo tells you all you need to know about the person.
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May 10, 2018, 02:47 PM
whododat
So, when is the honeymoon?
Because son, it is what you are supposed to do.
May 10, 2018, 02:50 PM
RichardC
Play 'Misty' for me.
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May 10, 2018, 02:53 PM
Rey HRH
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Originally posted by YooperSigs: Looking really happy in your booking photo tells you all you need to know about the person.
Yeah, that's funny. I thought it was just a crazy look.
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May 10, 2018, 02:54 PM
arfmel
She seems nice
May 10, 2018, 02:55 PM
justjoe
.... 31 year old Jaqueline "Crazy Eyes" Ades....
Looks like she'd be a pleasant enough date, if the plan was to roam back alleys of Paradise Valley looking to club sewer rats to death.
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May 10, 2018, 03:58 PM
tgtshuter
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Originally posted by Rightwire: Most of us read "#metoo" as "Pound me too". Not sure that is what she had in mind, but clearly she's a Canadian $1 coin.
Well done!
May 10, 2018, 04:19 PM
mbinky
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She also said that she wanted to wear his body parts and bathe in his blood, court paperwork said.
"It puts the lotion on its skin or it gets the hose again"
May 10, 2018, 04:30 PM
RHINOWSO
He fancy f&*ked her on the first date, just a little too well. And he gave her his real number and address.
Rookie move.
And she had a couple dozen screws loose already. BTDT, got the T-shirt - To the point if she had come to my house, I would have called the cops and not opened the door.
Crazy exists in this world and it’s often in the mind of a mildly to very attractive 30-something woman.
I think it’s also called a “Stage-5 Clinger”.
May 10, 2018, 05:03 PM
KMitch200
Time for the matrix again....
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May 10, 2018, 05:05 PM
lkdr1989
Burner phones aren't just for selling stuff on Craigslist
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Originally posted by RHINOWSO: He fancy f&*ked her on the first date, just a little too well. And he gave her his real number and address.
Rookie move.
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