Daughter and Archery - Know when to hold 'em and know when to fold 'em
Kind of a bittersweet evening, proud of my my kid but bummed as well. This weekend was the AZ Junior Olympic State Championships for archery. Yesterday was recurve day and today was compound. Our daughter got diagnosed yesterday with bronchitis and strep throat. She really wanted to shoot today, with changing bows and Vegas coming in 2 weeks she wanted the time behind her bow in competition.
We discussed last night whether or not to shoot. Decided that since she would have been on antibiotics for 24 hours by the start of the tournament, we would leave the decision to her. She wanted it bad, she showed up, setup her bow, went through inspection and then just curled up into a ball in a chair. She went out, shot a 29/30 twice in a row for unofficial practice, came back to her chair, curled up in a ball again. I went to check on her and the response I got just reinforced our decision to let her decide for herself.
"Dad, I know I can win this, I want to shoot, I just don't have the energy to shoot 2 full scoring ends and I don't want to disappoint anyone. Would it be ok if I withdrew now before it becomes official."
I told her of course it would, mom took her home and she fell asleep in the truck before they even left the parking lot. Proud of my kid for her drive of wanting to shoot, but also proud of her for recognizing her limitations.This message has been edited. Last edited by: 2000Z-71,
My daughter can deflate your daughter's soccer ball.
January 28, 2018, 11:13 PM
flesheatingvirus
Sounds like you got a good one there.
Good job.
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-- Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past me I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain. --
January 29, 2018, 02:06 AM
Nuclear
I know way too many adults who aren't that smart. She is wise beyond her years.
January 29, 2018, 06:45 AM
pwelch001
I think she's gonna be just fine. Tough time of the year, my little guy, and my Maya, both have strep as well. Hope she gets better soon. Good job Dad
January 29, 2018, 03:41 PM
Jimbo54
She just keeps amazing us with her maturity beyond her years.
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January 29, 2018, 04:10 PM
djpaintles
Sorry she was ill. Nice to see a fine young lady with loving parents engaging her in positive activities. :-)
Remember, this is all supposed to be for fun...................
January 30, 2018, 12:25 AM
Rey HRH
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Originally posted by Nuclear: I know way too many adults who aren't that smart. She is wise beyond her years.
For realz.
"It did not really matter what we expected from life, but rather what life expected from us. We needed to stop asking about the meaning of life, and instead to think of ourselves as those who were being questioned by life – daily and hourly. Our answer must consist not in talk and meditation, but in right action and in right conduct. Life ultimately means taking the responsibility to find the right answer to its problems and to fulfill the tasks which it constantly sets for each individual." Viktor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning, 1946.