I am writing this with a heavy heart. My son passed away Sunday early morning. I only had almost 22 years with him and I am grateful to the Good Lord I had that. Everything was looking good for him-he followed in my footsteps in the fire dept., was getting released soon as a primary medic, and he loved his job and the people he worked with and he loved the Lord.
As we are overwhelmed with grief, I prayed to the Good Shepherd for comfort. Being we are always wanting a sign, I was no different. I prayed to the Lord He would send me a sign he was with the Heavenly Prince of Peace. I opened my Bible to John 4:50. It was a nobleman who wanted help from Jesus to save his son. The first thing I read in the Good Book, was in verse 50,Jesus said," Go your son lives".
I was overwhelmed with peace and sadness. I thank the Good Lord everyday and pray for His will to be done. As in the book of Job, " the Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away, BLESSED BE THE NAME OF THE LORD".
I can't thank Jesus enough for allowing the time I had. I beg of you all, turn to the Jesus for salvation as HE is the only way to the Father. I love and pray for you all, God bless.This message has been edited. Last edited by: patw,
May 31, 2026, 03:37 PM
oddball
My sincere condolences.
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May 31, 2026, 04:02 PM
straightshooter1
I am so sorry and will pray that the Lord comforts you and your family as I believe He will.
Bob
May 31, 2026, 04:16 PM
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I am so sorry to hear of this news...
I am grateful that Jesus gave you strength during this extremely difficult time. May the Lord keep you and your son in his grace.
You are in my prayers.
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May 31, 2026, 04:20 PM
redstone
My condolences to you and your family.
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May 31, 2026, 04:30 PM
BlackTalonJHP
We will pray for you and your family. May God comfort you in this suffering and affliction, 2 Cor 1:3-7. God bless you and give you peace.
May 31, 2026, 04:33 PM
V-Tail
It is hard to find words. I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in our prayers.
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May 31, 2026, 04:43 PM
flesheatingvirus
I also have no words other than I'm very sorry.
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May 31, 2026, 04:48 PM
ASKSmith
I am truly sorry for your loss. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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May 31, 2026, 05:04 PM
.38supersig
Thoughts and prayers my friend.
May 31, 2026, 05:06 PM
YooperSigs
My condolences to you and your family.
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May 31, 2026, 05:06 PM
chellim1
That is so terrible... but you have a good perspective. I am truly sorry for your loss. Your son and family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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May 31, 2026, 05:10 PM
WaterburyBob
My deepest and sincere condolences.
While not by his own hand, I lost my only son 17 years ago this month; he was 25. There are no words I can type; the pain will never leave, but over time it will lessen.
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May 31, 2026, 05:12 PM
TMats
Words fail, patw. I’m very sorry for you and yours.
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May 31, 2026, 05:13 PM
P220forever
Please take care of yourselves in this season of overwhelming loss. My heart and tears go out to you, Brother. Trust in the Lord to see you through.
May 31, 2026, 05:19 PM
KMitch200
Wow patw. I am very sorry you are going through this. May your faith bring you peace.
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May 31, 2026, 09:05 PM
DrWho
On June 15th it will be 54 years since my father took his life. It is extremely difficult to deal with such a situation. I remember staring at my father and the fireman took me away to another room.
I cannot now nor ever understand why.
You have my most sincere prayers.
May 31, 2026, 09:23 PM
old rugged cross
So sorry to hear of this Pat. May the Lord hold you and your family close right now. The strength to post this right now shows how strong your faith is. Prayers for you, your son and your entire family.
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May 31, 2026, 09:33 PM
got2hav1
Very sorry to hear of your son's passing. Prayers for you and your family. God bless you.
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May 31, 2026, 09:34 PM
darthfuster
There are members here who know your grief and hope. While you’ll never be the same, your faith will be reinforced over time if you allow it. Grief will cycle. We turned to each other and the Lord. I pray peace becomes your constant companion and that faith and hope carries you through. I’m so sorry for your loss.