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Originally posted by jhe888:

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Originally posted by chongosuerte:
I'd expect most states are very similar in this. It's their joint home, them being married and living in it as such. Catching a husband cheating doesn't change that. I doubt she can do anything, without a judge saying so.

Lawyer up...

This is right. It is "their" home, regardless of who might end up owning it after divorce.

She needs to get into the courthouse and ask the court to award her exclusive use of the home during the pendency of the divorce. Based on the limited facts given, she can probably expect that, although that is a very fact-specific question.

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Originally posted by Skins2881:

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Originally posted by jhe888:

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Originally posted by chongosuerte:
I'd expect most states are very similar in this. It's their joint home, them being married and living in it as such. Catching a husband cheating doesn't change that. I doubt she can do anything, without a judge saying so.

Lawyer up...

This is right. It is "their" home, regardless of who might end up owning it after divorce.

She needs to get into the courthouse and ask the court to award her exclusive use of the home during the pendency of the divorce. Based on the limited facts given, she can probably expect that, although that is a very fact-specific question.

Yep not a damn thing you can do about it. I called the cops on my ex-wife who had 1) moved out of the house, 2) Started a new relationship, and 3) Had a lease on a new residence.

She would randomly do drive-bys; come park in front of my house, or driveway; or would have a seat on my back patio. She'd demand to come into the house for some reason, she had no possessions in there. I had no clue why she was fucking with me, she left me, I did nothing dishonorable (cheat, abuse, lie, etc.).

Cops come I tell them she has moved out long ago and has her own place and only ever paid half of one mortgage payment on the house, he says it's still her house until the divorce is final. I ask him what if I catch her breaking in? Can I shoot her? He gave me a really dirty look to say shut the fuck up. He explained until a divorce decree says otherwise she can do whatever she wants, kick the door in, break a window, etc.

I ask the officer so I am just stuck with dealing with this? Yep.

Thank God, she finally got bored of that game and stuck to quieting stalking me. I never understood it. You dump me then stalk me, isn't that supposed to work the other way around or something?

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What you should of done, is this. You should've gotten a key made to her new place. When she came over and sat on your porch, you should have snuck out and gone to her new place, made some food and hung out until she came home or just made it obvious you were there. Once she did come back to her new place, then you should drive back to your home......when you do the exact same behavior they have no clue what to do next.