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Company asks veteran employee to train 25-year-old they promoted over her — and she refuses: ‘The audacity is stunning’

NY Post
By Emily Davis
Published Feb. 16, 2026, 7:51 p.m. ET

She was too old to be told what to do.

A veteran employee says she was passed over for promotion, with her company hiring a less-experienced college grad for the role. Jennifer Schroeder shared the story in a now-viral TikTok video, posted on Feb. 10 under the account @theunobsolete, saying her bosses subsequently asked her to train the newbie.


“I watched a 25-year-old get my promotion, and then they asked me to train her,” Schroeder told her followers. “Here’s what I said — No.”


Schroeder didn’t disclose the name of her workplace or the industry she is in. “They passed me over for a promotion that I had earned, gave it to someone fresh out of grad school with zero experience, and then expected me to teach her how to do the job they said I wasn’t good enough for,” she said. “The audacity is stunning, isn’t it?”


Thousands of commenters praised Schroeder for her refusal, citing similar incidences of ageism in their own careers. “If I’m not qualified for the position, I’m not qualified to train the person receiving it,” one commenter concurred.


Schroeder describes herself as a “workplace advocate” for professionals 45 and up. Her TikTok account, which boasts more than 70,000 followers, discusses the job market, workplace conflicts and career advancement.

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watched 25-year-old get my promotion then ask me to train her. I said no. Not sorry. Not maybe. Just no. She shocked. Manager furious. HR email about team player. Don’t care. They passed me over for promotion I earned. Gave it to someone with zero experience. Expected me to teach her job they said I wasn’t good enough for. Train my replacement? Pay me. Want 25 years knowledge? Triple salary consulting rates. Want me to smile while you humiliate me? Wrong person. Not your free training program. Not making cheap hire look competent. Not handing over everything so you can pay her half. They said unprofessional. I said appropriately compensated or not sharing. They said not supporting team. I said team didn’t support me. Silence. Second you stop being useful they stop caring. Stop pretending you owe them anything.
#promotions #over50 #notateamplayer #genx #isaidno



In the case of her promotion snub, Schroeder tartly stated: “The second you stop being useful, they stop pretending to care. So stop pretending you owe them anything.” The veteran said her bosses were shocked by her refusal to train the new, younger employee. She reportedly received HR emails about being a team player.


“I am not your free training program,” Schroeder said. “I am not here to make your cheap labor look competent, and I am not going to hand over everything I know so you can pay her half of what you pay me.” “Can’t be a team player for a team that played you,” one viewer stated.


Schroeder posted a follow-up video chronicling the fallout in her office, including a one-on-one meeting with higher-ups and getting iced out from other meetings and projects. The saga ended after three weeks in a meeting with her manager and HR. Schroder came prepared with receipts and negotiated six months severance pay.


“Ultimately, this experience has underscored the importance of standing firm on professional boundaries and the necessity for a fair corporate culture that cultivates talent rather than exploits it,” Schroeder wrote below her video.


A Forbes report, cited by the Daily Dot, found that 99% of employees over the age of 40 have reported experiencing ageism in the workplace, and an AARP study found that nearly a quarter of workers over 50 feel pushed out of their jobs due to their age.


Not long after Schroeder received six months of severance pay, she said an old colleague reached out to her — the young woman promoted over her lasted just four months.


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Good for her

I can't say I would have done the same in the corporate world. My job? Yes and I have done it, I just quietly quit after I snuck out all of my customer files


 
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Could have sued her employer for age discrimination.


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Good for her. Claiming sanctimony while trying to screw long standing employees. Serves them right. I hope they were dumb enough to not have her sign an NDA. She could capitalize on that a few months down the road. Sell your autograph one last time.
 
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Bet you they ended up hiring 2-3 people to do that job after the 25 year old quit. Big Grin


 
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Big Grin Big Grin Big Grin
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I've never had that happen to me personally but I have seen it happen three or four times over my career. I've never seen a successful "train your superior" scenario work out well.
 
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Doesn't seem like this situation worked out very well for anyone involved.
 
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Car dealer I was a parts manager for pulled a similar number. Cut both the service manager and my pay plan, change was a 33% loss. Dealer literally told me that he was disappointed that I wouldn’t give the new plan a fair chance as I left within two months. Took time to sell our home, set up interviews back east as things were few and far between in the Southwest.

Anyhow, one of the dealers sons decided that he was going to make one of his pals who he hired as a salesman the new parts manager as he couldn’t sell refrigerators in the desert.

The newly designated parts manager comes to me and told me that he was my replacement and wanted me to teach him how to read the catalogs, work the counter and how to be a parts manager, all the processes, etc., in two weeks. My response was “Not my job, I’m not a teacher, I’m a manager. The next two weeks I’m devoting to running my department, managing my staff, selling parts, keeping the shop moving and that’s all.”

He protested, saying that the dealers son promised that I’d teach him. I looked at him and said “Sink or swim buddy, not my problem” all the while expecting to get the boot that afternoon. Well I didn’t and two weeks later,he walked in cold turkey.

He lasted three days…..don’t know how he made it that long.


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I wonder. What if she trained the other employee but not very well. They couldn’t really punish her for not being good at training I think. That way she keeps her job until she can find another to comfortably move to….



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Once I've been told no, I will not give my expertise away and have and will continue to allow management to look foolish for their decisions.


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My wife’s first job after college was a good paying job. She was there for 15 years and the third highest paid employee in her department.

When the economy started tanking, instead of working with their employees, they started screwing with them. They did shady stuff to the higher paid employees to get rid of them, starting with the highest salaried.

They started berating my wife when it was her turn. 13 straight years of excellent reviews and suddenly her job performance was horrible. It was all lies and it was cruel. Training her replacement, PIP (Performance Improvement Program). They were set to fire her but her replacement quit before they did. So it was another year of lies and PIP before they fired her.

She signed up for unemployment and the company tried to deny it. When the lady on the phone interrupted my wife and asked, “How long were you employed there mam”, my wife responded 15 years and the woman laughed and told her approximately when she should be expecting her first unemployment check.

If the stress wouldn’t have hurt my wife I would have sued them for what they did. All they had to do is approach my wife and see if they could have adjusted salary or reduced hours, or anything honest. My wife would have been open working with them. The option they chose was just wrong on every level.
 
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The company I worked for refused to promote from within, people with 15 years experience. Hire plant managers with zero experience.
After the shit hit the fan the VP of our region asked me and another guy about why we didn't help, I looked him in the eye and said
I was told to "shut up and do what your told". Plant manager quit and they hired another guy with zero experience. LOL! I'm glad I'm out of that game.
 
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“Ultimately, this experience has underscored the importance of standing firm on professional boundaries and the necessity for a fair corporate culture that cultivates talent rather than exploits it,” Schroeder wrote.

Good for her!



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To Corporate, we're all just numbers on a balance sheet.
 
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Good for her !! Smile
 
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HR emails about being a team player.


There's no I in team. But there is in quIt.





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To Corporate, we're all just numbers on a balance sheet.


For better or worse, that's true. But there's a humane process to deal with personnel cuts and an indecent way. I've been in monthly senior management meetings when, if the top line number (sales) wasn't going to be met for the quarter, the subtle hint was dropped by the division president that the bottom line (profit margin) should at least still be met.

The only way to meet profit targets when sales are going to be missed is to cut costs and for the areas tasked with making sales, it means laying off people in the sales organization.

It's just carrying out management's responsibility to the company's stakeholders. I still keep my RSUs from that company because it's a well-run company.

But, again, there's a decent way to go about it without manufacturing reasons to fire people.



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Could have sued her employer for age discrimination.


Exact situation happened to a friend of mine years back. He sued and won. He never said how much but he ended up living on a 40 ft sailboat in Florida. He named the boat after the guy that fired him “Mikes Mistake”
 
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Sounds like she works for Northrop Grumman, in the Global Hawk.






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