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Am I a bad Dad??

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May 26, 2021, 05:32 PM
Black92LX
Am I a bad Dad??



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May 26, 2021, 05:36 PM
cjevans
Nah, not at all.

You are just warming them up for a backhoe though?

Smile



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May 26, 2021, 05:40 PM
wreckdiver
Work ethic is never a bad thing thing to instill in young un's!!


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May 26, 2021, 05:41 PM
YooperSigs
Just put helmets on them.


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May 26, 2021, 05:42 PM
berto
They look like they're having too much fun for you to be the bad guy.
May 26, 2021, 05:42 PM
chellim1
No.
But... now I'm thirsty for tea and lemonade!



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May 26, 2021, 05:44 PM
ARman
How are they at pulling weeds?.....



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May 26, 2021, 05:46 PM
P220 Smudge
Yes.

Had you made a fourth one, they could have finished the job faster. Wink


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May 26, 2021, 05:46 PM
Nismo
If you used a second tarp, you could line the bed with it before dumping in the load, then pull the whole tarp up and over from the front and out all at once.
May 26, 2021, 05:59 PM
DennisM
So you bought a bunch of clean dirt for your boys to play in, then watched from afar to make sure nobody encroached on the fun?

Actually, you rock.
May 26, 2021, 06:22 PM
konata88
Yes. I think you should be teaching them the wheelbarrow at the same time. Smile




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May 26, 2021, 06:31 PM
Balzé Halzé
That depends. Am I?




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May 26, 2021, 07:00 PM
92fstech
Not at all! Kids got to learn to work sometime, might as well start them young (and it saves your back)! Mine have done similar things, although the oldest just turned 13 and apparently that's the age where they stop seeing the fun in it. I haven't told him yet, but after we get back from vacation I'm ordering 25 tons of limestone for the driveway Big Grin.
May 26, 2021, 07:01 PM
parabellum
Based upon that picture, no, far from it.
May 26, 2021, 07:22 PM
Black92LX
Truth be told this picture was during their 3rd load in 2 days.
They did a load of playground chips for their play land in the backyard.
For that assignment. The 2 big boys had 5 gallon buckets and the little one had a beach sand bucket.
I filled them up from the back of the truck and they carried them to the play land area.
I could have just filled the wheel barrow a few times and dumped it in. But it is their play land so they were going to do most of the work.
This was the 2nd load of the day. We unloaded about half of the load at our friends place and they helped me spread it.
Then the other load and a half onto the driveway for Mama’s planting beds. She’ll weed with them and spread the mulch this weekend while I am at work.

quote:
Originally posted by ARman:
How are they at pulling weeds?.....



ARman


Decent. Though the little one tends to pull things that are not weeds. But that is the next step with Mama.

quote:
Originally posted by konata88:
Yes. I think you should be teaching them the wheelbarrow at the same time. Smile


They are good with that and a 5 gallon bucket. They have a wheel barrow for their size but the axle broke and need to fix it as I have not been able to find another kids sized one locally.

And for the record last week while they were in school, I shoveled a load of manure tilled it into the garden and shoveled a load of 50/50 compost and smoothed out the garden.

Need to consult the farmers almanac so we can get these seeds in the ground.

I was being a bit facetious with my thread title. I know my kids will thank me down the road for instilling a work ethic in them.
They actually do a pretty good job of helping around here.

It does amaze me how many folks never require their kids to lift a finger.


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The world's not perfect, but it's not that bad.
If we got each other, and that's all we have.
I will be your brother, and I'll hold your hand.
You should know I'll be there for you!
May 26, 2021, 07:24 PM
BamaJeepster
Not if you ask me!!






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May 26, 2021, 08:47 PM
f2
beats white washing fences.
May 26, 2021, 09:27 PM
RobLew
One of the biggest reasons to have kids is what I used to call the "voice activated system".

"Boys!!! I want you to <fill in the blank>"

It will get more capable as they get bigger, then effectiveness will likely drop off precipitously in the teen years.


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May 27, 2021, 07:40 AM
trapper189
Yes, you are a bad dad. Did your wife approve their outfits? My wife gives me what for when my kids dress like that when I’m in charge. Razz
May 27, 2021, 08:14 AM
randyman
I applaud your instilling of a sound work ethic at an early age.
By the way - are they earning minimum wage or standard union wages?