Enforcing a PFA

January 06, 2018, 01:04 AM

Icabod

Enforcing a PFA

Pursue.
Have seen too many "no contact" orders get ignored when the couple "makes up." Too often the couple will gang up on those intervening.

Then you have child support (snort) and custody. He'll use the visitation to harass or get back with her.

Wood chipper, fish, fast river.

January 06, 2018, 01:21 AM

SapperSteel

quote:
Originally posted by Sig2340:
You are in the landscaping business, right? Gotta 10hp woodchipper and a pond full of hungry fish nearby?. . .

Or, make friends with a hog farmer.

January 18, 2018, 07:26 PM

mark123

The good news is that the DA got involved and is pressing charges. I think he's going back to prison.

January 18, 2018, 08:44 PM

tatortodd

That's a great update!

Ego is the anesthesia that deadens the pain of stupidity

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January 18, 2018, 08:46 PM

PorterN

My sister-in-law is in a vaguely similar situation but without the courage to take the necessary actions to leave the abuser. Im fully in the camp of do whatever you can within the law.

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January 18, 2018, 09:23 PM

rangemaster

It would be just too much for the knocked up baby momma to unplug from social media, huh.

January 18, 2018, 10:34 PM

LtJL

it's pretty simple in ohio. with a court order, harasses must comply or go to jail. In domestic violence cases, the State of Ohio is the victim, so wifey cant' drop the charges in the morning, because he promised not to do it again.

January 18, 2018, 11:51 PM

mark123

quote:
Originally posted by rangemaster:
It would be just too much for the knocked up baby momma to unplug from social media, huh.

Apparently. Trust me, we've been through all that. The point is though, that nether could he.

She's terrified of him, and as much of it is her own fault, no one deserves to live in fear.

January 29, 2018, 05:01 PM

mark123

No jail time for the goof. The judge did, however, expand the PFA to disallow chuckles from contacting the immediate family and if he is even suspected of contacting anyone again it's an immediate 90 day lockup.

January 29, 2018, 05:14 PM

heathtx

Just remember, the baby is totally innocent and love the child from the get go.

Little children (IMO) deserved to loved and cherished and educated. Form a bond with the kid, be fun and they will love you forever.

Heathtx
with 2 grandkids, 7 and 6

January 29, 2018, 05:37 PM

downtownv

This is a pathological maniac, that will lie to portray himself as humble revised person. The tiger never changes their stripes and your daughter would be in jeopardy one day and you won't be there.
You will live with that forever. Ditch this prick one way or another!

January 29, 2018, 06:58 PM

mark123

I'm going to go with the whole due process thing.

January 29, 2018, 07:18 PM

dewhorse

quote:
Originally posted by mark123:
I'm going to go with the whole due process thing.

Damn...and I was boxing up some Texas hogs to send your way, do know how hard it is to get them in the FedEx standard box....not to mention the stains in the carpet....pretty sure one ate the neighbors dog, gonna get an ass chewing for sure

See if try to help you again

Good luck to you.and your step daughter

January 29, 2018, 07:21 PM

RHINOWSO

quote:
Originally posted by mark123:
I'm going to go with the whole due process thing.

Recommend some security cameras around yours and the baby mommas living quarters.

It's one thing to say dirtbag came around, it's quite another to have video evidence of it, date and time stamped for the PO-lice and Judge Whopner to view.

January 29, 2018, 07:24 PM

mark123

quote:
Originally posted by dewhorse:
quote:
Originally posted by mark123:
I'm going to go with the whole due process thing.

Damn...and I was boxing up some Texas hogs to send your way, do know how hard it is to get them in the FedEx standard box....not to mention the stains in the carpet....pretty sure one ate the neighbors dog, gonna get an ass chewing for sure

See if try to help you again

Good luck to you.and your step daughter

Thanks.

January 29, 2018, 07:26 PM

mark123

quote:
Originally posted by RHINOWSO:
quote:
Originally posted by mark123:
I'm going to go with the whole due process thing.
Recommend some security cameras around yours and the baby mommas living quarters.

It's one thing to say dirtbag came around, it's quite another to have video evidence of it, date and time stamped for the PO-lice and Judge Whopner to view.

I have to put a few more up at my place and I'll aim one at her place.

January 29, 2018, 07:28 PM

Skins2881

quote:
Originally posted by RHINOWSO:
quote:
Originally posted by mark123:
I'm going to go with the whole due process thing.
Recommend some security cameras around yours and the baby mommas living quarters.

It's one thing to say dirtbag came around, it's quite another to have video evidence of it, date and time stamped for the PO-lice and Judge Whopner to view.

This for sure there are an abundance of battery powered Wi-Fi cameras out there for cheap nowadays.

There is very little chance he's gone for good, even with the 90 days over his head.