An American Procession
SEAN DIETRICH
NOV 4


It’s overcast. I’m with my wife and my dog. We are on the wide porch of a vacation rental house.

This is the main road which cuts through this small town. There are sounds of kids laughing, playing. Easy traffic.

This is an old porch. The kind my father used to sit on. I can see him in my mind, shirtless, reading baseball box-scores. Or carving a pine stick. My wife is asleep in a rocking chair. My dog snores beside me.

Then.

I see vehicles.

Lots of them.

The first car is a police cruiser—blue lights flashing. Another cruiser follows. Then comes a slow-moving long black car—curtains and chrome fenders. It’s followed by the world’s longest line of cars. A million headlights.

The cars are flanked by a railroad crossing. The train is running. Ding, ding.

The funeral procession comes to a halt at the flashing railroad-crossing lights.

There’s a man on the porch of the house next to me. He's within spitting distance. They step off their porch together to stand in the yard.

A few other folks in nearby houses do the same thing. It seems like a good idea. My dog and I walk off our porch to stand by the mailbox. And even though this is a reverent moment, I can tell my dog is thinking about ham.

Across the street, a woman in an apron holds hands with a little girl. An old man is in his driveway. Watching. Kids stand beside bikes.

A few cars pull to the side of the road. We've all stopped what we're doing. We’re all here.

We don’t know the passenger in the hearse. And truth be told, I don’t even know why we do this. It’s a gesture of respect, of course. But why? Why respect a stranger?

Today, there is little respect. A few days ago, I saw a waitress get blessed out because the kitchen undercooked a guy’s hamburger.

But the string of cars is impressive. There are models of all kinds. Fords, Nissans, BMW’s, a few work trucks. A motorcycle.

The train is still rolling past. The line of headlights grows.

And I’m thinking about the lead car. I know what the family inside it is doing. They’re doing the same thing my mother and I did once. We were too stunned to even cry.

We stared at police escorts. The blue lights in the distance seemed frightening and comforting at the same time. We looked out windows, plain-faced.

People pulled trucks into ditches. Cars parked on shoulders. People stepped out of driver’s seats to stand. Strangers respected a stranger.

The train finally passes. The railroad-crossing barricades lift. The funeral line resumes. It takes four minutes for every car to pass us.

Afterward, we spectators wander to our houses. My wife is still asleep. My dog starts snoring again.

For a few minutes today, time stopped. We stopped it. People did this for my family once. And I’ll do it for theirs.

Because this is just what folks do for each other. Some might call it decorum. Others might call it respect.

I call it love. And this country needs a lot more of it.

Amen.

There ain’t enough love here anymore. People hate too much. All we really have in this world is each other. And we need to be better to one another.

A number of years ago, my daughter-in-law's mother passed away. The service was in Moulton, Texas. To get to the cemetery, the funeral procession went thru Shiner. The sheriff deputy stopping and directing traffic, removed is hat and placed it over his heart as we passed by. Once we were on the other side of town, all of the on-coming cars put their lights on and pulled to the side of the road. A farmer on his tractor in a field got down from his tractor, removed his hat and placed it over his heart.

Respect. Respect and condolences for the family.

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Just last week we made an overnight trip to see Sean Dietrich perform in Lufkin, Texas. It was well worth the drive up east Texas. It was an enjoyable evening. It was nice to briefly meet him and talk for just a moment after the show. He is just like how he writes.