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We had a very bad week 2 wks ago. We had 3 dogs: a 10 yr old long haired red mini dachshund female (Carmen), black/tan 11 yr old male dachshund (Bob) and a 12 yr old Beagle Dachund mix (Buddy). Carmen developed a seizure disorder. She began to fall over periodically. She would lay on her side knocked out for about 20 seconds and then get up dazed.

Vet tried some drugs but ineffective. Seizures became more frequent. Last Wed, wife called vet re meds. Vet said bring her in. Wife got into the truck. There was a tragic accident when Bob got under a wheel. We rushed him to the vet but he was gone. Bob was our most robust and healthy dog. Two days later Carmen died from her seizure disorder. We lost 2 of 3 dogs within 2 days.

Sad week at our house. The dogs were close to-each other, playing, pranking together and sleeping in the same box for the past 10+ years. Remaining dog Buddy seems quite depressed. We’re trying to give him as much attention as possible. I believe he’s depressed. Any ideas what we can do to help him?
 
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Oh no! To lose two in such a short time would be awful. Frown I don't have much for recommendations for cheering the other pup up unfortunately. They can be 'heartbroken' just like people at times. Giving extra attention is good - maybe daily walks (if you don't already do that?).

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Oh man, that's awful! I'm so sorry for you all.



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Buddy needs a buddy.

Time for a rescue.

It is not too soon, and your heart and lives have the capacity to welcome another.

And you are not "replacing", but adding to all of your lives.

I am very sorry for your pain and loss.




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We had 2 dachshunds who were brother & sister. When Bud died we buried him and let Wendy sniff everything throughout the process. It might be in our own minds, but, we think that gave her closure.

Is it too late to do something similar for Buddy? Even if you've already buried the others, dachshunds have great noses and you could take Buddy by the grave site.

Later we added a new pup, Gretchen, so Wendy had a buddy. They got along but not like the way Bud & Wendy used to play. When Wendy passed we went through the same burial process so Gretchen would "know" Wendy was gone.

Since then we've added a rescue and a Humane Society dachshunds so we have 3 now.

Best of luck with Buddy and very sorry to hear about Carmen & Bob.
 
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Dr Karen Becker had an article about the stress on a dog when he losses one of his companions today and what to do:

https://healthypets.mercola.co...-deal-with-loss.aspx


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Thanks for your responses. The vet artl was especially helpful.
 
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Like my primate brother, I am very sorry to hear of your pain and loss. Pet deaths are especially hard because of the bonds created.

As for Buddy, he needs a clowder of kittens.

No one can be depressed when attacked by a clowder of kittens.





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That's awful. Condolences of the loss of your pals.
 
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I am so sorry to hear this news. I really feel bad for you guys. Very sad news.


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Sorry for your loss.

We had two Bassets, who lived together for 12 years. When we lost the older one (the black one in my avatar), the younger (brown) one was depressed and sulked for months. He was lost, in that he was never without his buddy for his entire life - they did everything together. He eventually adapted to being in a 'one dog home,' and he recovered. His personality changed some, as the older one was definitely the dominant one of the pair, but he came into his own.

They say 'time heals all wounds,' and there is a lot of truth in that.



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Sorry for your loss.
If you are able, I also recommend going to the shelter and look to adopt another buddy. You'd be rescuing them and your lonely pup.
 
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I'm so sorry. Frown



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So sorry maxdog, I'll keep you guys in my prayers
 
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Sorry to hear about the double whammy.

At times like this the best thing you can do for Buddy is to remain positive and consistent. Don't throw "pity parties" for him, because he won't benefit from them. Try to find new says to fill time, to give him something to look forward to. Humans tend to grieve much longer and more intensely than dogs, and they often project their understanding of human grief onto their dogs.

Some ideas:

1. Long walks, especially where he gets to sniff new areas.
2. Obedience for rewards - You CAN teach and old dog new tricks.
3. Hide and seek games, where he either finds a toy, a family member, a treat, etc. - This is a really good game for Beagle, since they are hunters. The nose of a dog can be extremely powerful in motivating the body to move.
4. Puzzle solving for food - search Amazon for "dog puzzle toys."
5. If you sometimes sit on the sofa and watch TV but don't currently allow Buddy to join you, considering starting to do that, so he can have a replacement for the physical contact he had with his lost packmates.
6. Think about if you have any neighbors, relatives or friends who have a friendly dog that could spend some time with Buddy, even if it's just for daily walks.

Best of luck. Stay upbeat.
 
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Oh my goodness. I am so sorry. I hope your little one and you all feel better in time. Just awful.



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So sorry for your double loss.

I agree with the monkey; get a rescue or a puppy ASAP for all of your sakes.



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Very sorry for your losses.

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Sorry for your loss. Around here there are a few boarding places that do daytime doggie daycare and let the dogs socialize with each other.
 
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I am so sorry for your loss. When our Silky passed away, our Norfolk terrier didn't miss a beat. They had been in together for about 12 years. Neither did the other two younger pups. Kinda odd.

But me, on the other hand, still grieve two years later.....


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