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Why can't I get motivated?

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December 29, 2017, 12:52 PM
vthoky
Why can't I get motivated?
I just can't seem to get my sorry tail in motion. I've got the entire week off, nobody here to bug me, and a do-list as long as my arm... and I'm just not getting anything done.

I did visit family for Christmas, and got oil change and front brakes done this morning. (That is, I had them done... I could do it myself, but it would take three times as long, and I'd have to call a friend for help with the brakes. And then we'd get pizza and beer.) I've got desk work to do, a small bit of yard work to do (okay, that's not happening because it's 18° outside), I need to sweep / vac / leaf-blow the garage, send some "after-Christmas" cards, and move some furniture around. My office is a wreck, my workshop is twice as bad, the fridge needs dumping, and the dog needs a bath. Oh, and I'm sleepy as heck, to boot.

And here I sit: watching college football, surfing SF, and chatting with friends by phone and text. I walked around the house an hour ago looking at things that need to be done, and recognized my lack of motivation.

What the heck? Why can't I get even simple things done this week? (Or this month, for that matter?) Good grief, man! Mad




God bless America.
December 29, 2017, 12:55 PM
ugeesta
Because you are not being rushed. Enjoy your time off.

I’m suffering the same thing as I said that I would do some work over vacation. Well, that is not goi;g as planned. I’ll be farther behind when I goes back to work on Tuesday but it’s nice doing nothing in the meantime.




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December 29, 2017, 01:16 PM
old rugged cross
You are not alone buddy. Take the small victories and save the big battles for later.



"Practice like you want to play in the game"
December 29, 2017, 01:19 PM
Aeteocles
Make a *written* list. Cross them off as you go.
December 29, 2017, 01:26 PM
Rob Decker
Better question: when was the last time you got to just sit on your butt for an extended period?

Sometimes ya just gotta chill.


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December 29, 2017, 01:34 PM
braillediver
quote:
Originally posted by Aeteocles:
Make a *written* list. Cross them off as you go.

The first thing on the list is- Make a List. Then cross it off.


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December 29, 2017, 01:37 PM
SR025
quote:
Originally posted by braillediver:
quote:
Originally posted by Aeteocles:
Make a *written* list. Cross them off as you go.

The first thing on the list is- Make a List. Then cross it off.


Starting off strong... now time for a break
December 29, 2017, 01:41 PM
vthoky
Wow. I think I fell asleep right after my original post.

Oddly, all I want now is a nap. Eek




God bless America.
December 29, 2017, 01:50 PM
ensigmatic
quote:
Originally posted by braillediver:
quote:
Originally posted by Aeteocles:
Make a *written* list. Cross them off as you go.

The first thing on the list is- Make a List. Then cross it off.



I retired a bit over six months ago. I've got this Man Cave project I'm working on. Gut and remodel an 11x10' room in the corner of the basement. It's 99.999% gutted. Just got to strip the wallpaper off one wall. Haven't done squat with it for a week or better.

Almost went and bought the door and rigid foam insulation today, but the camera lens I ordered was out for delivery and, well...

Mañana Wink

I had a policy when I was still working and on vacation: "Eat when you're hungry. Sleep when you're tired or sleepy."

I wouldn't worry about it.



"America is at that awkward stage. It's too late to work within the system,,,, but too early to shoot the bastards." -- Claire Wolfe
"If we let things terrify us, life will not be worth living." -- Seneca the Younger, Roman Stoic philosopher
December 29, 2017, 01:57 PM
old rugged cross
It is a result of some depression. I think most of us have some level of it. Especially those of us over 50. Especially this time of year.

Some exercise, better diet help. If severe enough. Other remedies might be necessary.

I am not an expert but think this could at least be the case.

A lack of interest might be mistook for a lack of motivation or I don't want to be bothered.

Just a thought.



"Practice like you want to play in the game"
December 29, 2017, 01:59 PM
ArtieS
I'd write a long response, as I am in the same boat, but I think I'll have a nap instead.

Good luck.



"I vowed to myself to fight against evil more completely and more wholeheartedly than I ever did before. . . . That’s the only way to pay back part of that vast debt, to live up to and try to fulfill that tremendous obligation."

Alfred Hornik, Sunday, December 2, 1945 to his family, on his continuing duty to others for surviving WW II.
December 29, 2017, 02:03 PM
David Lee
I too need to find my wick and light it. Have a new radiator, hoses and, thermostat to install. Its in the teens outside all weekend. Not going to be fun at all.
December 29, 2017, 02:33 PM
JALLEN
You need my new book, soon to be available on Amazon.com. It will be titled “The Power of Patient Procrastination.”

It’ll be there as soon as I get around to writing it, ahhh, finishing it.




Luckily, I have enough willpower to control the driving ambition that rages within me.

When you had the votes, we did things your way. Now, we have the votes and you will be doing things our way. This lesson in political reality from Lyndon B. Johnson

"Some things are apparent. Where government moves in, community retreats, civil society disintegrates and our ability to control our own destiny atrophies. The result is: families under siege; war in the streets; unapologetic expropriation of property; the precipitous decline of the rule of law; the rapid rise of corruption; the loss of civility and the triumph of deceit. The result is a debased, debauched culture which finds moral depravity entertaining and virtue contemptible." - Justice Janice Rogers Brown
December 29, 2017, 02:38 PM
darthfuster
quote:
Originally posted by vthoky:
Wow. I think I fell asleep right after my original post.

Oddly, all I want now is a nap. Eek


There is nothing wrong with spending a day to decompress. I did that on Tues. I have been invigorated since and each task I complete motivates me to the next. Rest. Relax. Put your mind at ease. Get busy tomorrow. The trick is to only do this sequence once.



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December 29, 2017, 03:23 PM
vthoky
I keep telling myself that I can slackass today, but I have to promise [myself] that tomorrow will be a get-er-done day. Get up on time (5:30 is the norm), make coffee, get to the list. Very little on the list is time-sensitive; it all just needs to get done.

But heck, I haven't even focused well enough today to work on a solid list. Perhaps you've nailed it, DF: it's a day to decompress.

orc may have tagged it, too: I need to get back to better nutrition and more exercise. Cold weather and dark evenings don't make for good "bike, run or walk after work" days. And 50 is not far off.




God bless America.
December 29, 2017, 03:33 PM
cparktd
Since retirement I try to plan ahead and push myself to do at least one task every day. For example... yesterday I changed out a burned out light bulb in a lamp....
Today, I plan to making some sweet tea, and tomorrow I plan on drinking it!

A Man has to pace himself after all... Big Grin



If it ain't woke... don't fix it.
December 29, 2017, 03:41 PM
olfuzzy
I've suffered ? through this myself on numerous occasions.

I would say you have a bad case of the Toos:

Too hot, too cold, too late, too early, etc... you get the idea Big Grin
December 29, 2017, 05:07 PM
vthoky
Well, I did get my lazy tail off the recliner for a bit. Dog and I went walking, and had a good time of it. Saw a friend, got a wave (too cold to chat), got back before dark.

Time for some Hulu....




God bless America.
December 29, 2017, 05:29 PM
Rolan_Kraps
I feel you, Brother. I had plans of loading thousands of rounds of Cowboy ammo and cleaning every gun I own by now.

I did manage to load 300 rounds today.




Rolan Kraps
SASS Regulator
Gainesville, Georgia.
NRA Range Safety Officer
NRA Certified Instructor - Pistol / Personal Protection Inside the Home
December 29, 2017, 05:35 PM
KMitch200
quote:
I walked around the house an hour ago looking at things that need to be done, and recognized my lack of motivation.

Which is why I have the CUT that I have.
There's a lot of crap that I have to do tomorrow....maybe.


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