A little history-over the course of my career in the prison system, I discovered, reported and testified when necessary over staff having sex with inmates. It's never right, it isn't considered consensual, and is a crime. I have a very low tolerance for sex abuse. (Zero is a low number.) I counted it up once, it ran 36 cases three decades ago. It was depressing so I stopped counting. I've worked male and female prisons, so the abuse was of any sexual permutation you can come up with, including a male staffer forcibly sodomizing a male inmate. That being said....

All of these cases saddened and disappointed me, some more than others. I've had people I considered friends confess this shit to me. It goes on and on. But today I found out, IN THE DAMNED NEWSPAPER, that someone who was a former cop who I worked with in a post retirement job was in jail for a sex abuse case involving a minor, and had just been indicted in another county for a similar offense. I know he's innocent until proven, etc, but still, there was enough evidence to indict in two counties so it doesn't look good.

This was yet another friend and co-worker was most likely playing fuck around.

What the hell is wrong with people? There are 7 billion people in the world you can have sex with, and just a relative handful that are "off limits."

I'll get over it, but I do wish it would stop happening. There's always a trail of human debris left behind.

I am right there with you! the number of staff that had sex with inamtes was crazy. Some took the job just so they could! Out of 60+ cases maybe 5 got charged and maybe three got any jail time!!!

And then I had a family member that raped his daughter multiple times and is now doing life! (wich he deserves). It is very sad.