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Women who won't make restaurant suggestions.

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August 02, 2018, 12:17 PM
Jim Shugart
Women who won't make restaurant suggestions.
Which, AFAIK, is damned near all of them. My GF shoots down any of my suggestions and yet will not make any of her own. Mad


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August 02, 2018, 12:55 PM
Aeteocles
Download Yelp.

Bookmark favorites.

Pick randomly from the list. 1 veto allowed.
August 02, 2018, 01:06 PM
Lord Vaalic
Ha ha ha ha! my wife and I fight over this all the time. I'm a jerk because I won't pick but she won't pick anything either and that's ok.

I told her to get a bowl, put the restaurant names in it and we will just draw. It's a fight damn near every time we go out.

Where should we eat?

I don't care

How about Joe's?

Nah, not in the mood.

How about Franks?

No that's too far. Don't want Mexican anyway

How about Chang's?

No Chinese tonight. Or Italian. Or BBQ, or pizza.

Ok... What do you want?

I don't care just pick something !

Fine we're going to Sam's

No, I don't like the cheese sticks there.

For fuck sake woman! Where do you want to go?

Don't yell at me, I told you I don't care tonight

Grrrrrr.... Chak chak.....




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August 02, 2018, 01:16 PM
2BobTanner
Me: Where do you want to go for lunch/dinner?

Wife: Oh, I don’t know. Why don’t you pick the place.

Me: OK, “White Castle” it is then.

Wife: NOOOOO!!! Anywhere but there.

Me: But you said for me to pick it.

And that’s when the fight started. Wink


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August 02, 2018, 01:20 PM
tatortodd
My dining out solution seems to work pretty well.

On Monday or Tuesday, I make a dinner reservation for Friday or Saturday night and then tell her we're eating at x restaurant on y date at z time. Works well 90% of the time as she likes that I thought about it in advance and she can avoid eating her favorite dish prior to the reservation.

It works well for people who eat out once a week, but might not work for people who eat out most meals.



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August 02, 2018, 01:20 PM
PowerSurge
I ‘had’ a gf like that once. Smile


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August 02, 2018, 02:05 PM
Edmond
I just learned that I'll have to pick the place and she'll have to live with it. If you don't make a choice, I will.


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August 02, 2018, 02:13 PM
fgwilliams1
“How about the kitchen?” has not been received well by my wife.


GW.
August 02, 2018, 02:16 PM
MikeGLI
quote:
Originally posted by Aeteocles:
Download Yelp.

Bookmark favorites.

Pick randomly from the list. 1 veto allowed.


This. Maybe two vetos....maaaaaaaaybe, but sometimes I'll ask for some clues and I'll just make the decision.




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August 02, 2018, 02:21 PM
RHINOWSO
I tell her to pick or we can stay home. She's the foodie after all.

I have no time for that bullshit, apparently I'm a minority in that regard.
August 02, 2018, 02:31 PM
PHPaul
Unless we're on a road trip, we don't eat out. Problem solved.

I do get "what do you want for supper" but that usually goes well too. "Anything I don't have to cook" will get me a dirty look and a sammich...




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August 02, 2018, 03:17 PM
Prefontaine
Sounds perfect to me, does she have a sister?
My response would be “Excellent, then we are staying home and cooking, and saving money, thanks!” “I’m making X, you are welcome to some or fix something yourself.”

Wink



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August 02, 2018, 03:39 PM
h2oys
quote:
Originally posted by fgwilliams1:
“How about the kitchen?” has not been received well by my wife.


LOL and then out came the rolling pin...
August 02, 2018, 04:09 PM
brecaidra
quote:
Originally posted by Jim Shugart:
Which, AFAIK, is damned near all of them.


I'm hurt that you've asked nearly all women out to restaurants, but not me. Frown




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August 02, 2018, 04:11 PM
Georgeair



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August 02, 2018, 04:31 PM
comet24
This seems to be a common theme.

My current take is if I give you a suggestion and you shut it down I will pick somewhere else. If you shut that place down it's your turn to pick. Pony up and pick. Big Grin


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August 02, 2018, 05:23 PM
flesheatingvirus
quote:
Originally posted by Georgeair:



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August 02, 2018, 05:47 PM
KMitch200
quote:
Originally posted by comet24:
This seems to be a common theme.

Only if you like girls.

My ex would do the "no not there" BS until I said:
I'm not interested in where you *don't* want to eat. Tell me where you want to go or we're going to the first place I mentioned.

Reason #794 she's my ex.


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August 02, 2018, 06:28 PM
fgwilliams1
quote:
Originally posted by h2oys:
quote:
Originally posted by fgwilliams1:
“How about the kitchen?” has not been received well by my wife.


LOL and then out came the rolling pin...


She would have to go into the kitchen first to find it.


GW.
August 02, 2018, 07:18 PM
SpinZone
My wife and I used to play this game until I just started to use my favorite bbq joint as the default.

Me: where do you want to go?

Her: I don't know, pick something.

Me: ok, we're going to Cottons.

Her: I don't want to go to Cottons again.

me: fine, you have 6 miles to come up with an alternative, otherwise we are eating at Cottons.

It took a while (and a lot of Cottons) to train her but now when I ask her where she wants to eat at she comes up with a plan.



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