July 26, 2017, 07:14 AM
12131Losing Respect for Someone
quote:
Originally posted by Hansgruber:
Maybe all those years ago he resented you being part of his relationship with his father, and with the fullness of time, and the distance of separation - plus the bluntness that comes with age, he has simply expressed what he has come to realize he felt back then.....
I do believe you need to read, really read, the initial post again.

It's not the friend that's the problem. It's the friend's dad who talked shit about the OP.
July 26, 2017, 09:49 AM
Ronin1069quote:
I have not seen this man in probably 20 years and live 2000 miles away but last night I found out that he has been talking shit about me and putting me down to the extent my friend pretty much told him to fuck off and walked out of a family event over it.
Kevmo:,
For what it's worth. I have a friend who was in your place once, the message was blown way out of proportion. If you have not done so, you may want to confront your friend's dad on what was told to you.
July 26, 2017, 10:19 AM
bubbatimeYou need to put on adult diapers, and drive out there immediately without stopping (aka like that nut astronaut lady) and confront him immediately. The gall of that guy!!