Tell him to get a lawyer and protect his assets.

A planned weeklong trip for the wife and ex to hang out (assuming the husband doesn’t plan activities) is far different than a night over to catch up.

I don’t care how much you trust a spouse, that isn’t normal marriage behavior; especially when the out spouse is clueless.

Answer - NO .

Weird.

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would you let your wifes old boyfriend stay for a week?

Only if I wanted a divorce.

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The Husband is a church going family man

Finally the clue. Most church going and preachers sons I have known were hell bend for leather.

They are probably making videos of threesomes. You are only getting the cover up story.

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If your spouse can't resist temptation, then they aren't trustworthy in that area and the relationship is bound to have more problems in the future.

My wife can resist temptation. She is also smart enough to not ask such a stupid question.

What if the visitor took advantage and didn't take no for an answer?
Now you have that whole "Let's get rid of the body" thing to deal with.

This whole topic is a joke, right?

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Originally posted by NK402:
This whole topic is a joke, right?

Nope it's the real deal.

Since the husband is a follower of Jesus; Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous. Hebrews 13:4

Fuck no. Being to nice of a guy gets you put in last place. Stand up and own your ground.

MYOB

This sounds like a trial run to see if the old husband is better than the current husband she is not in love with.

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Originally posted by myrottiety:
Fuck no. Being to nice of a guy gets you put in last place. Stand up and own your ground.

Shit, it's way beyond that. His wife likely bangs the ex more in a week than he gets in a year.

He's obviously in the passenger seat of the relationship; she's driving.

Stick a fork in em, he's done.

Maybe he wants her to run away.

Maybe he's in the closet and gay....and she let's him hook up with men......and he lets her hook up with men.....or perhaps they've got a threesome going on.....

Maybe he's just wound up tight, boring, lazy, disinterested, lacking confidence. or the like.

A ton of folks of both sexes are bored to death with their long time partner in the sack.

Take an active interest in properly serving your partner's needs, or someone else may...

I detest cheating, myself, and work to ensure I'm never, knowingly, that "other guy".

But opportunities abound, and these themes are common.

I say he should say sure the guy can stay as long as he brings his girl friend... then he can take her out with him during the week while the wife and old boyfriend stay at home..... SW......ing!

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Originally posted by YooperSigs:
Hmmmm..... I think an "arrangement" has been reached by all the parties involved.

Yes. But on the bright side, I bet he enjoys having fresh sheets on the bed every day!

This sounds like a porno "plot".

I wouldn't want my wife's ex-husband staying at my house but mostly because he'd probably steal something or mess with my toothbrush.

NFW, not ever.