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paradox in a box |
Aaaaaaand I'm going for drinks with her tomorrow night! WTF. LOL. Okay she texted me again and said she isn't into games and that the whole first meeting thing was a mistake. She thought I was very nice to reach out and treat her nice after that. She asked for a fresh start. She definitely isn't looking for any sugar daddy. She is in a better position than me based on what I can tell (she's a local successful realtor). I figured what the hell. I got nothing to lose by going out for a drink and seeing what's up. These go to eleven. | |||
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Vi Veri Veniversum Vivus Vici |
Sleep on your stomach afterwards _________________________ NRA Endowment Member _________________________ "Of all tyrannies, a tyranny exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It may be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end, for they do so with the approval of their own conscience." -- C.S. Lewis | |||
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paradox in a box |
Okay I'm a bit slow tonight. I don't get it. These go to eleven. | |||
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Member |
I think you played this pretty well. You never want to come off as desperate, and the fact that you didn't jump at the chance to meet up with her again probably piqued her interest. And to the people who said she's probably nuts or crazy - they all are. Good luck! | |||
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Experienced Slacker |
Hopefully all goes well enough for this sort of end to the evening: Link to original video: https://youtu.be/hkBgCKhG7j4 | |||
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Member |
What are your expectations? If superficial, don't matter. If prospective then maybe consider: 1) if you do start dating, what if she's out at a bar without you and sees a guy drinking alone..... Okay with chatting him up? 2) maybe not have this thread in case you do like her, you hit it off and then she runs across this thread somehow..... "Wrong does not cease to be wrong because the majority share in it." L.Tolstoy "A government is just a body of people, usually, notably, ungoverned." Shepherd Book | |||
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In the yahd, not too fah from the cah |
I don't either. | |||
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Age Quod Agis |
Can't be Bobbitized if you're sleeping on your stomach. "I vowed to myself to fight against evil more completely and more wholeheartedly than I ever did before. . . . That’s the only way to pay back part of that vast debt, to live up to and try to fulfill that tremendous obligation." Alfred Hornik, Sunday, December 2, 1945 to his family, on his continuing duty to others for surviving WW II. | |||
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Do the next right thing |
No, but you can lose your kidneys and wake up in a bathtub full of ice. | |||
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Member |
I think she wants to show you her basement......you know where she has her dungeon...... | |||
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Drill Here, Drill Now |
front or back, she can still glue your testicles to your leg (Two and a half men) Ego is the anesthesia that deadens the pain of stupidity DISCLAIMER: These are the author's own personal views and do not represent the views of the author's employer. | |||
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The success of a solution usually depends upon your point of view |
Yea, not so much. “We truly live in a wondrous age of stupid.” - 83v45magna "I think it's important that people understand free speech doesn't mean free from consequences societally or politically or culturally." -Pranjit Kalita, founder and CIO of Birkoa Capital Management | |||
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paradox in a box |
LOL I know right. Well I still sort of win because she came back after me. Her text was at 7 am. My female coworkers say she had to be thinking about it all night. Hopefully the worst I have to worry about is it not going smoothly. Hopefully I’ll have all my, umm, organs intact. These go to eleven. | |||
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paradox in a box |
Yeah that one comment does have me curious. I was surprised she started pursuing me after that. Perhaps it will come up in conversation. My friends seem to think she was just in an awkward situation that night and didn’t know what to say. These go to eleven. | |||
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Member |
Shields up, bullshit radar on highest sensitivity setting, keep smoke grenades handy for quick exit. | |||
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Get my pies outta the oven! |
You are getting played my friend. | |||
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Fighting the good fight |
That's a negative, frayedends. Wave off... wave off! Eject! Eject! Eject! | |||
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paradox in a box |
What is the angle? What’s in this for her if I’m getting played? I’m not too concerned. I will pick up on things pretty quick. I don’t have money for her to scam me out of. These go to eleven. | |||
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Ol' Jack always says... what the hell. |
Control. | |||
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Staring back from the abyss |
I hope you don't live to regret this decision. But, as a distant observer and one who has walked in those shoes, I suspect that you will. ________________________________________________________ "Great danger lies in the notion that we can reason with evil." Doug Patton. | |||
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