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I was out for a walk with Mrs. Outnumbered recently when a LARGE, mean/angry dog charged us from between a couple of buildings. I yelled "NO!" in a booming voice, which (thankfully) stopped the dog, which is a good thing, since my wife had already grabbed tightly ahold of my right arm so I couldn't have drawn if I had needed to.

Perhaps this has been discussed before or addressed in your training, but thought I'd share a recent experience in case it might help someone.
 
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I’d also make damn sure you discuss that with the wife, too.


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It is always a good idea to keep your strong hand free as much as possible. For example, if you carry an item or items that don't need both hands, carry them in your weak hand.
 
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It is always a good idea to keep your strong hand free as much as possible. For example, if you carry an item or items that don't need both hands, carry them in your weak hand.


Yep. This is something that cops have had drilled into them for years, but it's a good idea for anyone who carries a handgun.

My wife thinks it's funny, because there are times that I'll have two or three things in my left hand (like a bottle of water, a bag of groceries, and my car keys) and nothing in my right.
 
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I have schooled all my GFs, EXs and other female types that should anything of threatening nature take place, they are to immediately step away from me and get on the phone to 9-1-1.
Certainly not fool proof but it does get them off the X ring and frees me up to do what I need to do.
And after I told a couple of them about this drill, they dumped me. No loss. If you are going to hang with me, its all part of the fun!


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My wife has outstanding situational awareness.

We have discussed this protocol: If she sees something that raises her spider sense, she is to position herself so that I am between her and the questionable person.

This accomplishes a few things:
  • It makes me aware that something might be up. She does not have to say anything.

  • It lets me know where to look -- opposite side of where she is.

  • It gets her out of the way in the event that I would need to draw and aim.



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The woman is always to walk to the man's left side (unless the woman is the only one carrying).
There may be an exception for lefties, but that has never concerned me.
 
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No. Where I walk in relation to them depends on where we are. I am almost always behind them. Sometimes directly, sometimes off to one side or another. I almost always get in the car last and sometimes walk them to the passenger side and the kids both get in that door with the wife up front.




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No. Where I walk in relation to them depends on where we are. I am almost always behind them. Sometimes directly, sometimes off to one side or another. I almost always get in the car last and sometimes walk them to the passenger side and the kids both get in that door with the wife up front.


Kinda what I do, since I couldn’t find a great way to reconcile walking on the outside of the sidewalk in all occasions. I’m watching 360 and especially ahead and behind anyway and there’s been times I’ve went ahead to get between someone who looked sketchy or hung back enough to create more of a lead between the family and whatever didn’t look right. It has worked so far. The big thing is my wife knows not to grab my gun arm. It stays free for a reason, and even at age four, little man knows that when we’re out and about, Dad is doing guard duty and not “just there,” and if things get ugly, to go with Mom and stay well clear of whatever Dad has to deal with.
 
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It has been that way since the main weapon was a sword. Same reason you always walk a dog on your left side. You need to keep the gun hand free,
 
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My wife and I have had this discussion previously. Usually right after she grabs my right hand and wants to walk on my right side, since in Memphis this usually puts her on the street side and away from the panhandlers.

Much like my cat, she needs frequent retraining....


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Very good point. I try to subscribe to keeping my gun hand free but sometimes it just isn't.


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I took to wearing my Fitbit on my right wrist. Keeps my right hand free to do what needs to be done and as a bonus, I never miss out on my steps...





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