Sorry Para, especially to your wife. I lost a brother recently so I understand the shock of losing someone unexpected. Keep the faith, the sad thoughts slowly become happy memories. It just takes time.
----------------------------------------------------------- TCB all the time...
I'm very sorry for your loss. While the circumstances are certainly painful to think about, at least you can take comfort that he didn't slowly waste away with a terminal illness but instead went out while still pretty active. My condolences.
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