Dad had another surgery last week. They pulled out a mass that they said was benign. Still wasn't feeling good so they transferred him to Allegheny General. Test results say stage 4 cancer in bones, liver and kidneys. 3 weeks is all they gave him if he refuses chemo. Maybe 5 months if he takes chemo.
I think I've processed it but still don't know how to feel about it. Frankly, I'm surprised he's lasted as long as he has.
It's been a hard couple of years for him. Much suffering. For God's sake, if you smoke please try your best to stop. It's horrible to have to watch someone go thought this mess and it's preventable.
"Yidn, shreibt un fershreibt"
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Prayers and best wishes
A mind is a terrible thing.
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Niech Zyje P-220
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I am sorry about your Dad's condition. No mention of age, and if he is in his 80's is the anguish of chemo worth taking for the extra time.
I smoked. I had cancer. I don!t know if that was the cause of my cancer, but 14 years after quitting,I look back and can say smoking did nothing at all to help me or anyone.
|Cogito Ergo Sum|
So very sorry to hear this Mark. Your father will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Prayers & positive, peaceful thoughts.
|Frangas non Flectes|
I'm so sorry, Mark. I'll keep you guys in my prayers. Look for a care package soon.
|so sexy it hurts|
Praying for you and the family, buddy.
"You have the right not to be killed..."
The Clash, "Know Your Rights"
I'm very sorry to hear that.
Ladies and gentlemen, take my advice - pull down your pants and slide on the ice.
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|I'm No Quitter|
Prayers for your family! Donna
|Money won is sweeter |
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Sad news Mark. Very sorry to hear this. All the best to you and your family.
Einstein defines insanity as "Doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results"
|Set out once to become the world's greatest procrastinator, but never got around to it|
I am so sorry, Mark. Went through this (with my Mom) when my Dad passed way too early from lung cancer after 4 decades of smoking. Then went through it again (with my wife this time) when her Dad passed away from lung cancer that had also spread elsewhere, also after decades of smoking. Neither was pretty and, according to the doctors, both were entirely avoidable had they not smoked or had they quit earlier.
You and your Dad are in my thoughts for the very best outcome possible.
|Plowing straight ahead come what may|
Mark, I'm sorry the hear this...prayers for not only your dad as he faces this, but also for you and all the family for strength and peace.
"we've gotta roll with the punches, learn to play all of our hunches
Making the best of what ever comes our way
Forget that blind ambition and learn to trust your intuition
Plowing straight ahead come what may
And theres a cowboy in the jungle"
Hard to hear, I'm very sorry for you. My dad is 79 and is suffering from years of smoking as well. Hard to understand how you can do this to yourself, but we all have our vices.
"Attack life, it's going to kill you anyway." Steve McQueen...
|Fool for the City|
Sorry to hear this, Mark.
"A free people ought not only to be armed and disciplined but they should have sufficient arms and ammunition to maintain a status of independence from any who might attempt to abuse them, which would include their own government." George Washington.
Prayers to you and your family...
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Very sorry to hear this - you and your family are in my thoughts.
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