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My sister, who I have loathed for years is in a hospice dying of bone cancer. On Sunday a volunteer pastor who befriended her contacted me to let me know. My spouse and adult child were going to see her and I went along. She was obese the last time I saw her; today she was gaunt like survivors of the Holocaust were when liberated by Allied forces. She is getting palliative care only. Based on my experience she has only a few days left. It was strange how quickly my loathing disappeared, even though she crossed so may boundaries and did so many unforgivable deeds, all without caring about the consequences to others, that I thought I would never want to see her, speak to her, or give two shits about her. She recognized me and said in surprise “My God.” I replied “Let’s hope not.” I post this only to observe that sometimes you have to choke back your righteous anger to do something for a person who you loathe, but if you can, do so. For yourself, if not for the other person. She has donated her body to a medical college. When they are done, she’ll be cremated and the cremains sent to me. After I have them I’ll take them to Wyoming and scatter them where she and I scattered father and mother’s ashes, north of Walcott about 20 miles. Edited to fix typos.This message has been edited. Last edited by: Sig2340, Nice is overrated "It's every freedom-loving individual's duty to lie to the government." Airsoftguy, June 29, 2018 | ||
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Sorry D, no matter your feelings for her a month ago, you are doing the right thing. Jesse Sic Semper Tyrannis | |||
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In the long run, blood will out. You did not say how old you both are, but it is never too late to make things right. Family should be together at death, I think. I was with my sister and my mother when they died; I missed being with my dad by just a few minutes. Sad occasions, all, but I wanted to be with them. I believe you will be glad you saw your sister. flashguy Texan by choice, not accident of birth | |||
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Membership has its privileges |
I am so very sorry. I too think you did the right thing. Niech Zyje P-220 Steve | |||
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Political Cynic |
my condolences in advance of the inevitable I think you did the right thing - as hard as it was [B] Against ALL enemies, foreign and DOMESTIC | |||
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A Grateful American |
I am sorry fir the pain you have known and know tie this day. May it be diminished each day until one day you are surprised that you did not realize it was no more in your life. And a prayer for your sister's comfort. "the meaning of life, is to give life meaning" ✡ Ani Yehudi אני יהודי Le'olam lo shuv לעולם לא שוב! | |||
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So sorry, our prayers and condolences. Bill Gullette | |||
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Bravery sometimes comes in different forms. NRA Patron Member, Instructor and CRSO NC CCH Instructor GRNC Life Member VCDL Member | |||
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| Live long and prosper  |
Sorry to hear this, brothe. Currently walking in your shoes and they hurt deeply and painfully. My sister will survive, it appears, and recover, but now my mother is in deep doodoo. Losing her marbles and full of anger and hate. Wish I had no time for them but my soul commands otherwise. 0-0 "OP is a troll" - Flashlightboy, 12/18/20 | |||
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Now and Zen |
Very sorry. My condolences. ___________________________________________________________________________ "....imitate the action of the Tiger." | |||
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| Serenity now! |
I'm sorry to hear.. in the end there is only family, nothing else matters. ------------------------------------------------ 9/11/01 Never Forget "In valor there is hope" - Tacitus | |||
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Could not have said it better. Place your clothes and weapons where you can find them in the dark. “If in winning a race, you lose the respect of your fellow competitors, then you have won nothing” - Paul Elvstrom "The Great Dane" 1928 - 2016 | |||
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Prayers up, David. God bless America. | |||
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| You don’t fix faith, River. It fixes you.  |
Agreed. It's a blessing to have been given the time. ---------------------------------- "If you are not prepared to use force to defend civilization, then be prepared to accept barbarism.." - Thomas Sowell | |||
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Oriental Redneck |
Sorry, Dave. Q | |||
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| Leatherneck |
Sorry to hear that man. My prayers are with you all. “Everybody wants a Sig in the sheets but a Glock on the streets.” -bionic218 04-02-2014 | |||
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| Lawyers, Guns and Money  |
Add to that the knowledge that you are doing the right thing. Prayers for your family. "Some things are apparent. Where government moves in, community retreats, civil society disintegrates and our ability to control our own destiny atrophies. The result is: families under siege; war in the streets; unapologetic expropriation of property; the precipitous decline of the rule of law; the rapid rise of corruption; the loss of civility and the triumph of deceit. The result is a debased, debauched culture which finds moral depravity entertaining and virtue contemptible." -- Justice Janice Rogers Brown "The United States government is the largest criminal enterprise on earth." -rduckwor | |||
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Sabonim |
That my friend, is humanity. God bless you and your sister. Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming, 'Wow! What a Ride! ~Hunter S. Thompson | |||
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| Green grass and high tides  |
Very sorry. Prayers for you all. I too think there will be peace for us all. "Practice like you want to play in the game" | |||
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My condolences,sad | |||
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