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Not at all.

I'm a lifelong WASP, among the most "white privileged" as modern parlance puts it. There weren't many Jews around here where I grew up, but I worked for and with several Jewish businessmen, a lawyer or two. I was treated well, fairly, and had no problem with that.

Since then, I've dealt with hundreds, as clients, employers, employees, adversaries, all respectfully, mostly fairly (we're lawyers, after all!), and of course read extensively of the history of Europe.

So, then this asshole comes along and accuses me of being Jewish. My accuser meant to insult me. Instead, it caused me to think thoughts and realize perceptions that I had not had before, the sting of bigotry and prejudice. I understood what it felt like, a little.



I figured as much. I just wanted to hear the story. Thanks
 
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Short. Fat. Bald.
Costanzaesque.


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Happy New Year ya'll! I was working a 12, of course. I feel older.


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He looked like an accountant or a serial-killer type. Definitely one of the service industries.
 
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So, then this asshole comes along and accuses me of being Jewish. My accuser meant to insult me. Instead, it caused me to think thoughts and realize perceptions that I had not had before, the sting of bigotry and prejudice. I understood what it felt like, a little.


It is interesting to read that. I am not Jewish, but thinking of all the Jewish people I know, I wouldn't think of being mistaken for Jewish as an accusation. I suspect that "assholes" accuse people of being the stereotype that they have in their minds of Jewish people and don't have much knowledge of Jewish people.
 
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Originally posted by Jeff Yarchin:
A sweet new year to all.


A blessing on you for thinking of your neighbour!

tac
 
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So, then this asshole comes along and accuses me of being Jewish. My accuser meant to insult me. Instead, it caused me to think thoughts and realize perceptions that I had not had before, the sting of bigotry and prejudice. I understood what it felt like, a little.


It is interesting to read that. I am not Jewish, but thinking of all the Jewish people I know, I wouldn't think of being mistaken for Jewish as an accusation. I suspect that "assholes" accuse people of being the stereotype that they have in their minds of Jewish people and don't have much knowledge of Jewish people.


There is a long history of slights, insults, discriminations against Jews, even more than Irish, Catholics and probably less than against Negroes. Some was blatant, like deed restrictions forbidding sale or occupancy by negroes or Jews. Some was more subtle. Harry Truman was partners in a mens clothing store after WWI, with an Army buddy, Eddie Jacobson, but Jacobson could never come to the Truman's home for dinner. Ben Graham, the famous investor who was Warren Buffett's mentor, was reluctant to hire Buffett, feeling that since Jews could not be hired at most Wall Street firms, he ought to save his few spots for Jews. I'm sure the older Jewish guys here can list hundreds of similar demeaning attitudes, treatment, cruel jokes, stereotypes, etc.

The asshole was not mistaking me for a Jew; he knew better. It was meant as an insult, to demean me in the group we participated in. This, and his other antics and threats, kind of backfired, while my stock rose, so to speak.

Anyway, enough of this thread drift.




Luckily, I have enough willpower to control the driving ambition that rages within me.

When you had the votes, we did things your way. Now, we have the votes and you will be doing things our way. This lesson in political reality from Lyndon B. Johnson

"Some things are apparent. Where government moves in, community retreats, civil society disintegrates and our ability to control our own destiny atrophies. The result is: families under siege; war in the streets; unapologetic expropriation of property; the precipitous decline of the rule of law; the rapid rise of corruption; the loss of civility and the triumph of deceit. The result is a debased, debauched culture which finds moral depravity entertaining and virtue contemptible." - Justice Janice Rogers Brown
 
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Special Happy New Years to any fellow SAMMY brothers out there!

Fast and Firm!

HK Ag
 
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I hope posting this video isn't inappropriate to the occasion. I have such a fondness for Israel and her culture and history that this music calls to me. The lyrics especially mirror my own sentiments and at times bring me to tears of inspiration.




You’re a lying dog-faced pony soldier
 
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Happy New Year Smile
 
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Happy New Year!

Bruce






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“It is just as difficult and dangerous to try to free a people that wants to remain servile as it is to try to enslave a people that wants to remain free."
-Niccolo Machiavelli

The trouble with fighting for human freedom is that one spends most of one's time defending scoundrels. For it is against scoundrels that oppressive laws are first aimed, and oppression must be stopped at the beginning if it is to be stopped at all. -Mencken
 
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Shana Tova U'Metuka!

I was once mistaken for not being Jewish. For several years, actually, by my elderly neighbor who had a habit of saying some pretty classic things about Jews.... Actually, I was also mistaken for not being Jewish by a professor who told me it was offensive to call someone a Jew. I asked him why he thought that and said that I was a Jew and I wasn't offended by being called a Jew. He got a shocked looked on his face, "You're Jewish?"




"I've spoken of the shining city all my political life, but I don't know if I ever quite communicated what I saw when I said it. But in my mind it was a tall proud city built on rocks stronger than oceans, wind-swept, God-blessed, and teeming with people of all kinds living in harmony and peace, a city with free ports that hummed with commerce and creativity, and if there had to be city walls, the walls had doors and the doors were open to anyone with the will and the heart to get here." -- Ronald Reagan, Farewell Address, Jan. 11, 1989

Si vis pacem para bellum
There are none so blind as those who refuse to see.
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