All the more reason to heed the advice of others and go silent or at least temper your posts here, facebook, twitter, Instagram, or any other digital place you frequent. Cyberstalking isn't just for criminals..

Sorry you're dealing with this, but once it's done and you've taken time to heal your soul life will improve.

And to press this point once more, divorce without using lawyers isn’t necessarily the same as without consulting one on occasion.

What you do on your own to protect yourself never has to be part of a shared conversation with her. Consulting an attorney if only for the big picture overview and second set of eyes isn’t a bad idea and can be very cost effective.