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Little ray
of sunshine
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It does suck.

I deal with divorced and divorcing people day in and day out - it is my work. It is too soon to try a new serious relationship. Wait another year.




The fish is mute, expressionless. The fish doesn't think because the fish knows everything.
 
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Still finding my way
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Originally posted by BigSwede:
We can start a betting pool on whether he did it or not

He did it.
Went very cordial but sad. I bought a new guitar to take the sting off so that'll keep me preoccupied for the next few days at least.
 
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Alea iacta est
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Sorry you had to go through this. It sounds like it was the best for you. I had been thinking maybe there was a way to make it work, until I read what you said about the 11 year old running to the neighbors house and asking them to call the police. At that point I was on board with the ejection handle.

While I’m no musician, I do appreciate the instruments that I can’t play.

You can’t just come in here and be like “bought a new guitar” and not post a pic!?!



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Originally posted by parabellum: You must have your pants custom tailored to fit your massive balls.
The “lol” thread
 
Posts: 4023 | Location: Staring down at you with disdain, from the spooky mountaintop castle.  | Registered: November 20, 2010Reply With QuoteReport This Post
Waiting for Hachiko
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Fellow gave me advice right before I got married.

"If you think it's hard to change your life, just how are you going to change another person's life?"

His meaning was, if you think you are going to marry, and that is going to change the other person's ways, forget it.
 
Posts: 6673 | Location: Near the Metropolis of Tightsqueeze, Va | Registered: February 18, 2007Reply With QuoteReport This Post
Still finding my way
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While I’m no musician, I do appreciate the instruments that I can’t play.

You can’t just come in here and be like “bought a new guitar” and not post a pic!?!


Thanks. Here's the axe.

Fiddle Pics
 
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Happiness is
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Went very cordial but sad.


I know it sucks but you did the right thing for both of you. I can't say for sure but I suspect you already feel a great sense of relief and less stress - not because the conversation is over but because the relationship is.

Hang in there - it does get better.



Icarus flew too close to the sun, but at least he flew.
 
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My relationship advice to anyone who will listen is: "Never give more than you are willing to give or you will eventually resent them."

I got lucky and learned that lesson while still dating (long before marriage).

Good luck repurposing your life.
 
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Originally posted by SevenPlusOne:
"Look, I've got shit to do"


Be a boss, do it via text. Cool

Big Grin


That's the best way to do it. It went very smooth with my last crazy one. Three short paragraphs sent and I never answer the phone again. Smile

Those little sit down talks can sometimes go very wrong. This day and age lots of crazies out there.

Officer, look I never laid a hand on her. I wasn't there, I texted her. Smile
 
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Originally posted by LS1 GTO:
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Originally posted by SevenPlusOne:
"Look, I've got shit to do"


Be a boss, do it via text. Cool

Big Grin


That's the best way to do it. It went very smooth with my last crazy one. Three short paragraphs sent and I never answered the phone again. Smile

Those little sit down talks can sometimes go very wrong. This day and age lots of crazies out there.

Officer, look I never laid a hand on her. I wasn't there, I texted her. Smile
 
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