Ahhhh forget all of the naysayers. The crazy ones are ALWAYS the best in bed. It sounds like you've got your eyes open going into it. Go out and have a good time, and if she shows you her place after the bar, even better.

Quick update. I hate trying to post from my phone and guns are verboten on the company computer.

So it turns out she is actually one of the most normal women I’ve met since divorced. She explained what happened the night of “the other guy”. Basically she went on a few dates with him and knew it wouldn’t go anywhere. The nether she met me at the bar he started texting her and he decided to come to the bar (he knew she goes for karaoke every week). She panicked and just told me he was coming and that was it. It took her time to contact me again because of what happened. Basically had a good night and will see each other again.

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Originally posted by frayedends:... and will see each other again.

Said the spider to the fly.

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Originally posted by frayedends:
She explained what happened the night of “the other guy”. Basically she went on a few dates with him and knew it wouldn’t go anywhere. The nether she met me at the bar he started texting her and he decided to come to the bar (he knew she goes for karaoke every week). She panicked and just told me he was coming and that was it.

Yeah, cuz it would've taken ages to explain that at the time.

"I'm sorry. Guy I've been dating casually took it upon himself to invite himself tonight. You can still join us, if you want, but I'd understand if you wanted to bail & maybe we could hook up another time?"

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It took her time to contact me again because of what happened.

Uh huh...

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Originally posted by frayedends: Basically had a good night and will see each other again.

Good luck. Maybe it's as she says. Personally, I'd be keeping the barkeep's words in mind. Recently-divorced women can be quite unstable. Ask me how I know. Oh yeah: And she seemed super-together, too. Until she didn't, any more.

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Originally posted by ensigmatic:... And she seemed super-together, too. Until she didn't, any more.

So did she...

It's always the ones that seem "normal."

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Look at all those fucking wires!?! What could possibly go wrong?

Rofl! You guys are tough.

Because we've been there before.

Life's too short to mess around with people who play games.

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Originally posted by frayedends:
She explained what happened the night of “the other guy”. Basically she went on a few dates with him and knew it wouldn’t go anywhere. The nether she met me at the bar he started texting her and he decided to come to the bar (he knew she goes for karaoke every week). She panicked and just told me he was coming and that was it.

Yeah, cuz it would've taken ages to explain that at the time.

"I'm sorry. Guy I've been dating casually took it upon himself to invite himself tonight. You can still join us, if you want, but I'd understand if you wanted to bail & maybe we could hook up another time?"

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Originally posted by frayedends:
It took her time to contact me again because of what happened.

Uh huh...

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Originally posted by frayedends: Basically had a good night and will see each other again.

Good luck. Maybe it's as she says. Personally, I'd be keeping the barkeep's words in mind. Recently-divorced women can be quite unstable. Ask me how I know. Oh yeah: And she seemed super-together, too. Until she didn't, any more.

CORRECTION: Guy she was seeing that stopped talking to her because she was crazy,HE was horny and finally started answering her texts and decided to see her after a week of not talking to her in order to get laid. Guy then continued to see her for another 2 weeks because the sex is good until he had enough of her craziness and stopped talking to her again......then she contacted you...... The crazy ones can seem very normal at first.....

Recently divorced women aren't necessarily crazy. Their priorities are totally different when it comes to dating. They want to make up for lost time and do all of the things their husband never did for them......go out dancing...hit the bars with their girlfriends.......whatever.....and well they want sex.....perhaps because the sex they got at the end of the marriage wasn't good, if they got it at all.......so they're looking for fun and a fling, not a LTR.

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Rofl! You guys are tough.

You know, strap yourself in and enjoy the ride!

Let us know how it turns out. She reads an awful lot like someone I know, and based on my experiences, I would say be extremely careful.

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Rofl! You guys are tough.

You know, strap yourself in and enjoy the ride!

Kinky

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You know, strap yourself in and enjoy the ride!



Kinky

Don't forget a safe word. Something like "pineapple juice".

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Rofl! You guys are tough.

This thread has me laughing but I'm hoping for the best for you. Just not holding my breath.

I glad that you are going for it. if someone didn't tie a rope around the bull's nuts, climb on its back, and then tug on the rope, the folks in the stands would not have much of a show.

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Originally posted by frayedends:
Rofl! You guys are tough.

This thread has me laughing but I'm hoping for the best for you. Just not holding my breath.

I glad that you are going for it. if someone didn't tie a rope around the bull's nuts, climb on its back, and then tug on the rope, the folks in the stands would not have much of a show.

Don't give her any ideas!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Haha! I love this. So I figured I'm taking it slow at first. Saw her the one night, it went well. Planned to maybe see her one night this coming week. Between kid duty we don't have a lot of free time at the same time. Next Saturday I'm heading to Germany for work for a week. So I figure one more date, see how it goes. We have a mutual attraction but not a lot in common otherwise (she says she can be high maintenance, princess type. I'm a Slayer fan, gun guy, bbq on weekends type).

Anyhow she's already texted me a ton of times in 2 days and trying to get together sooner than we planned. Actually said she wants to see me soon rather than later. I sort of backed away from any rush. Geez, one night and she's hooked on me. LOL

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Haha! I love this. So I figured I'm taking it slow at first. Saw her the one night, it went well. Planned to maybe see her one night this coming week. Between kid duty we don't have a lot of free time at the same time. Next Saturday I'm heading to Germany for work for a week. So I figure one more date, see how it goes. We have a mutual attraction but not a lot in common otherwise (she says she can be high maintenance, princess type. I'm a Slayer fan, gun guy, bbq on weekends type).

Anyhow she's already texted me a ton of times in 2 days and trying to get together sooner than we planned. Actually said she wants to see me soon rather than later. I sort of backed away from any rush. Geez, one night and she's hooked on me. LOL

I can almost guarantee she wants sex......give it to her......if things get to weird, text her from Germany that you'll be stuck there longer than expected and will text her when you get back.....LOL Then one night you'll run into her at the same bar, with the same other guy.

Yeah, post divorce and you don’t wait months for sex - usually the first or second date. Maybe the third.

Just make sure you are either (1) fixed or (2) wrap it, even if she says she’s on the pill.

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. . .she's already texted me a ton of times in 2 days and trying to get together sooner than we planned. Actually said she wants to see me soon rather than later. I sort of backed away from any rush. Geez, one night and she's hooked on me. LOL

LOL? Hardly.

This has big flapping red flags all over it.

Don't get burned.