Okay I already knew da wimmins was crazy but...(update on page 3, she texted me again)
Aaaaaaand I'm going for drinks with her tomorrow night! WTF. LOL. Okay she texted me again and said she isn't into games and that the whole first meeting thing was a mistake. She thought I was very nice to reach out and treat her nice after that. She asked for a fresh start. She definitely isn't looking for any sugar daddy. She is in a better position than me based on what I can tell (she's a local successful realtor).
I figured what the hell. I got nothing to lose by going out for a drink and seeing what's up.
These go to eleven.
October 25, 2017, 05:47 PM
ChuckFinley
Sleep on your stomach afterwards
_________________________ NRA Endowment Member _________________________ "Of all tyrannies, a tyranny exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It may be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end, for they do so with the approval of their own conscience." -- C.S. Lewis
October 25, 2017, 06:14 PM
frayedends
quote:
Originally posted by ChuckFinley: Sleep on your stomach afterwards
Okay I'm a bit slow tonight. I don't get it.
These go to eleven.
October 25, 2017, 06:28 PM
AirmanJeff
quote:
Originally posted by frayedends: Aaaaaaand I'm going for drinks with her tomorrow night! WTF. LOL. Okay she texted me again and said she isn't into games and that the whole first meeting thing was a mistake. She thought I was very nice to reach out and treat her nice after that. She asked for a fresh start. She definitely isn't looking for any sugar daddy. She is in a better position than me based on what I can tell (she's a local successful realtor).
I figured what the hell. I got nothing to lose by going out for a drink and seeing what's up.
I think you played this pretty well. You never want to come off as desperate, and the fact that you didn't jump at the chance to meet up with her again probably piqued her interest.
And to the people who said she's probably nuts or crazy - they all are.
Good luck!
October 25, 2017, 07:20 PM
apprentice
Hopefully all goes well enough for this sort of end to the evening:
Originally posted by frayedends: She tells me how she doesn't like to see someone drinking alone and that's why she originally sat with me and chatted.
What are your expectations? If superficial, don't matter.
If prospective then maybe consider: 1) if you do start dating, what if she's out at a bar without you and sees a guy drinking alone..... Okay with chatting him up? 2) maybe not have this thread in case you do like her, you hit it off and then she runs across this thread somehow.....
"Wrong does not cease to be wrong because the majority share in it." L.Tolstoy "A government is just a body of people, usually, notably, ungoverned." Shepherd Book
October 25, 2017, 07:49 PM
ryan81986
quote:
Originally posted by frayedends:
quote:
Originally posted by ChuckFinley: Sleep on your stomach afterwards
Okay I'm a bit slow tonight. I don't get it.
I don't either.
October 25, 2017, 08:26 PM
ArtieS
Can't be Bobbitized if you're sleeping on your stomach.
"I vowed to myself to fight against evil more completely and more wholeheartedly than I ever did before. . . . That’s the only way to pay back part of that vast debt, to live up to and try to fulfill that tremendous obligation."
Alfred Hornik, Sunday, December 2, 1945 to his family, on his continuing duty to others for surviving WW II.
October 25, 2017, 08:48 PM
bobtheelf
quote:
Originally posted by ArtieS: Can't be Bobbitized if you're sleeping on your stomach.
No, but you can lose your kidneys and wake up in a bathtub full of ice.
October 25, 2017, 09:25 PM
jimmy123x
I think she wants to show you her basement......you know where she has her dungeon......
October 25, 2017, 09:58 PM
tatortodd
quote:
Originally posted by bobtheelf:
quote:
Originally posted by ArtieS: Can't be Bobbitized if you're sleeping on your stomach.
No, but you can lose your kidneys and wake up in a bathtub full of ice.
front or back, she can still glue your testicles to your leg (Two and a half men)
Ego is the anesthesia that deadens the pain of stupidity
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October 25, 2017, 10:50 PM
SpinZone
quote:
Originally posted by frayedends: ROFL. I win!
Yea, not so much.
“We truly live in a wondrous age of stupid.” - 83v45magna
"I think it's important that people understand free speech doesn't mean free from consequences societally or politically or culturally." -Pranjit Kalita, founder and CIO of Birkoa Capital Management
October 26, 2017, 09:24 AM
frayedends
quote:
Originally posted by SpinZone:
quote:
Originally posted by frayedends: ROFL. I win!
Yea, not so much.
LOL I know right. Well I still sort of win because she came back after me. Her text was at 7 am. My female coworkers say she had to be thinking about it all night.
Hopefully the worst I have to worry about is it not going smoothly. Hopefully I’ll have all my, umm, organs intact.
These go to eleven.
October 26, 2017, 09:27 AM
frayedends
quote:
Originally posted by konata88:
quote:
Originally posted by frayedends: She tells me how she doesn't like to see someone drinking alone and that's why she originally sat with me and chatted.
What are your expectations? If superficial, don't matter.
If prospective then maybe consider: 1) if you do start dating, what if she's out at a bar without you and sees a guy drinking alone..... Okay with chatting him up? 2) maybe not have this thread in case you do like her, you hit it off and then she runs across this thread somehow.....
Yeah that one comment does have me curious. I was surprised she started pursuing me after that. Perhaps it will come up in conversation. My friends seem to think she was just in an awkward situation that night and didn’t know what to say.
These go to eleven.
October 26, 2017, 10:04 AM
Leemur
Shields up, bullshit radar on highest sensitivity setting, keep smoke grenades handy for quick exit.
October 26, 2017, 10:12 AM
PASig
You are getting played my friend.
October 26, 2017, 10:36 AM
RogueJSK
That's a negative, frayedends. Wave off... wave off!Eject! Eject! Eject!
October 26, 2017, 11:45 AM
frayedends
What is the angle? What’s in this for her if I’m getting played? I’m not too concerned. I will pick up on things pretty quick. I don’t have money for her to scam me out of.
These go to eleven.
October 26, 2017, 12:41 PM
kx90
quote:
Originally posted by frayedends: What is the angle? What’s in this for her if I’m getting played? I’m not too concerned. I will pick up on things pretty quick. I don’t have money for her to scam me out of.
Control.
October 26, 2017, 11:00 PM
Gustofer
quote:
Originally posted by frayedends: Aaaaaaand I'm going for drinks with her tomorrow night! WTF. LOL. Okay she texted me again and said she isn't into games and that the whole first meeting thing was a mistake. She thought I was very nice to reach out and treat her nice after that. She asked for a fresh start. She definitely isn't looking for any sugar daddy. She is in a better position than me based on what I can tell (she's a local successful realtor).
I figured what the hell. I got nothing to lose by going out for a drink and seeing what's up.
I hope you don't live to regret this decision. But, as a distant observer and one who has walked in those shoes, I suspect that you will.
________________________________________________________ "Great danger lies in the notion that we can reason with evil." Doug Patton.
