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Aaaaaaand I'm going for drinks with her tomorrow night! WTF. LOL. Okay she texted me again and said she isn't into games and that the whole first meeting thing was a mistake. She thought I was very nice to reach out and treat her nice after that. She asked for a fresh start. She definitely isn't looking for any sugar daddy. She is in a better position than me based on what I can tell (she's a local successful realtor).

I figured what the hell. I got nothing to lose by going out for a drink and seeing what's up.




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Sleep on your stomach afterwards




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Sleep on your stomach afterwards


Okay I'm a bit slow tonight. I don't get it.




These go to eleven.
 
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Aaaaaaand I'm going for drinks with her tomorrow night! WTF. LOL. Okay she texted me again and said she isn't into games and that the whole first meeting thing was a mistake. She thought I was very nice to reach out and treat her nice after that. She asked for a fresh start. She definitely isn't looking for any sugar daddy. She is in a better position than me based on what I can tell (she's a local successful realtor).

I figured what the hell. I got nothing to lose by going out for a drink and seeing what's up.


I think you played this pretty well. You never want to come off as desperate, and the fact that you didn't jump at the chance to meet up with her again probably piqued her interest.

And to the people who said she's probably nuts or crazy - they all are.

Good luck!
 
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Hopefully all goes well enough for this sort of end to the evening:




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She tells me how she doesn't like to see someone drinking alone and that's why she originally sat with me and chatted.


What are your expectations? If superficial, don't matter.

If prospective then maybe consider:
1) if you do start dating, what if she's out at a bar without you and sees a guy drinking alone..... Okay with chatting him up?
2) maybe not have this thread in case you do like her, you hit it off and then she runs across this thread somehow.....




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Sleep on your stomach afterwards


Okay I'm a bit slow tonight. I don't get it.


I don't either.



 
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Can't be Bobbitized if you're sleeping on your stomach.



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Can't be Bobbitized if you're sleeping on your stomach.


No, but you can lose your kidneys and wake up in a bathtub full of ice.
 
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I think she wants to show you her basement......you know where she has her dungeon......
 
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Can't be Bobbitized if you're sleeping on your stomach.


No, but you can lose your kidneys and wake up in a bathtub full of ice.
front or back, she can still glue your testicles to your leg (Two and a half men)



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ROFL. I win!



Yea, not so much.



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ROFL. I win!



Yea, not so much.


LOL I know right. Well I still sort of win because she came back after me. Her text was at 7 am. My female coworkers say she had to be thinking about it all night.

Hopefully the worst I have to worry about is it not going smoothly. Hopefully I’ll have all my, umm, organs intact.




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She tells me how she doesn't like to see someone drinking alone and that's why she originally sat with me and chatted.


What are your expectations? If superficial, don't matter.

If prospective then maybe consider:
1) if you do start dating, what if she's out at a bar without you and sees a guy drinking alone..... Okay with chatting him up?
2) maybe not have this thread in case you do like her, you hit it off and then she runs across this thread somehow.....


Yeah that one comment does have me curious. I was surprised she started pursuing me after that. Perhaps it will come up in conversation. My friends seem to think she was just in an awkward situation that night and didn’t know what to say.




These go to eleven.
 
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Shields up, bullshit radar on highest sensitivity setting, keep smoke grenades handy for quick exit.
 
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You are getting played my friend.


 
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That's a negative, frayedends. Wave off... wave off! Eject! Eject! Eject!

 
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What is the angle? What’s in this for her if I’m getting played? I’m not too concerned. I will pick up on things pretty quick. I don’t have money for her to scam me out of. Smile




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What is the angle? What’s in this for her if I’m getting played? I’m not too concerned. I will pick up on things pretty quick. I don’t have money for her to scam me out of. Smile

Control.

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Aaaaaaand I'm going for drinks with her tomorrow night! WTF. LOL. Okay she texted me again and said she isn't into games and that the whole first meeting thing was a mistake. She thought I was very nice to reach out and treat her nice after that. She asked for a fresh start. She definitely isn't looking for any sugar daddy. She is in a better position than me based on what I can tell (she's a local successful realtor).

I figured what the hell. I got nothing to lose by going out for a drink and seeing what's up.

I hope you don't live to regret this decision. But, as a distant observer and one who has walked in those shoes, I suspect that you will.


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